is this anything other than bullying?

[EyelinerAndCigarettes]

well i dont know if this counts sexual abuse/harassment i was just wondering what you guys think.

well my best friend about 2 years ago was really controlive and bullied me all the time, one day she forced herself onto me, and attempted to touch me and other sexual things, i didn’t say no, but i didn’t say yes, i didn’t want her to do it but i should have said something shouldn’t i? she stopped trying to do stuff when she heard my dad coming in. now whenever i see her, i freeze up. its been really getting to me lately, i get really nervous when im around her etc etc. i dunno i was just wondering if it could be "classed" as anything? other than bullying.

thanks babes
xoxoxox

[Sarah]

Hey, *hugs*
sorry you have been experiencing this :(
i agree with 'ToLiveIsToLoveThePain' that it is harrasemt.

Is there any possibility she could mistake your silence for a 'yes'? The next time you see her, or in a letter, try to tell her you are uncomfortable with the situation. She needs to be clear that u are not comfortable with this and if it continues I really think you need to avoid her =(

You really dont deserve this at all =(

take care, and let us know how things are going with this yeah?

[helper1218]

It sounds like attempted sexual assault to me, because luckily your dad came in. If she tries it again try to bould up some courage to say no. However you should probably try to avoid her all together if she does that kind of stuff.

[Ivy]

Helen, I love you.
Really, I'm dealing with sort of the same thing that happened on Thursday, but I wasn't sure how to talk about it.
I hope things get better.
I loves you. :]

<3 Kacey

[lydia.]

I'm so sorry to hear that happened. It wasn't your fault, and you didn't do anything to deserve being treated that way.
Can you try avoiding her, or do you think you could try and tell someone about what happened?
xx

[chingas]

Like others I would say it was at leas an attemp to abuse you. I'm glad anything worse happened. This was already all too much.
If she tries anything again please stay strong and say no. Say something or push her away.
Take care! *hugs*

[EyelinerAndCigarettes]

thanks everyone so so much, your all such wonderfull people.
im staying out of her way now :)
hopfully she'll stop talking to me soon...
*hugs*
xxxx