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09-06-2009, 09:03 PM
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Triggering (Abuse) - Rantish - When's the line b'tween disaplean and abuse drawn?
Blehh
i'm probably not gonna end up doing anything. I never do...
But..
my mom has a bad temper. I mean i do too, but i'm better at controling it.
Yestsrday, she lost it..and she dropped my three year old brother down about four feet.. I don't know exactly why, but it's kinda sad i can judge distance by how hard he hit and the crying.
Then she went on about how he's being a horriable child. Granted, he wasn't behaving well, but ... he's THREE....
this is NOT the first instance of this stuff.
she's done it to the older one (almost seven) and still does. i've seen her smack both of 'em around....
a few months ago she gave them a black eye..
she used to do this stuff to me, but after i turned about 9, i got stronger than her. She stopped doing it to me because i was old enough to fight back.
My dad's no help in all of this. He drinks like f#ck and sometimes does the exact same things. Less so with them than he did with me (probably because he openly prefers his sons to me).. but he's hit them..
I really don't know if any of this crosses the line.. I've lived with it for so long... it's normal i guess.
Like, i know, people have it so much worse.. why the **** am i complaining?... idk if ya read ALL of that WALL of text, responces are a bit appriciated
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09-06-2009, 10:12 PM
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well
I'm not sure if i'm in a state to talk about that atm.
I don't see how tho. i mean.. Yeah they have to 'investigate' but one word to like a 'friend' and they'd say 'no she'd never be abusive'...
Plus, people like that are **** about actually following through... i was forced to tell the "counceler" at school about cutting, and legally she has to tell my parents but she didn't.. ever. .I mean really they're NOT goinna do anything. No one ever has
Last edited by flying[star] : 09-06-2009 at 10:13 PM.
Reason: typed too fast and made a zillion spelling errors
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10-06-2009, 08:11 AM
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yeah i think people would believe you. you can report it as a child being in danger that you know about. any therapist is forced to report something like that, as is any medical worker, police officer, etc. *hugs* it's certainly not normal though and i'm glad you're looking out for both yourself and your younger siblings. pm me if you ever need to talk.
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