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Old 27-11-2020, 07:41 AM   #1
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So, I've finally told my therapist about the time I was molested as a teenager. She told me that while it was a traumatic experience, I may not really be asexual as I always thought. She said that the trauma may have been blocking me and I could be able to get a fulfilling sexual relationship. She told me that I should avoid talking about sex and romance and try to be more at ease with it, especially with people I trust. Last night I had a panic attack about a raunchy joke going way out of hand and I felt so embarassed.

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Old 27-11-2020, 05:09 PM   #2
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Well done for telling your therapist, I imagine that was hard to do but will hopefully be worth it. How do you feel about what she said about your sexuality? I hope that she did just say 'may not be' rather anything definite because that's not her place to say!

How are you doing now after having had a panic attack last night?



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Old 28-11-2020, 06:53 PM   #3
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Way better. I felt I had to apologize for what happened because I felt really embarrassed. My friend apologized to me for making me feel uncomfortable, too. In truth, she did say "may not be" just as you told. She told me to consider an alternative, which I'm open to.

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Old 01-12-2020, 08:48 PM   #4
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Oh that's good that you were able to clear the air and that your friend was sorry for making you feel uncomfortable.



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