Sometimes I think coming on this site is a complete waste of time.

Meldainiel · 25-04-2012, 11:31 PM

I go into chat hoping that someone will give a crap, but all that happens is I get totally ignored, or I meet someone I like and then they ignore me too. I get that I'm a handful. I just wish that someone who came around would STAY around, even if its just to pretend that they actually WANT to talk to me. Its like I want to talk to everyone else more than they want to talk to me. I feel like I shouldn't be here, like I'm not welcome. I miss being accepted and cared for and wanted and it seems like all I do on here is be supportive of everyone else, which I dont mind, I just wish the road went both ways is all.

PassedExpectations · 25-04-2012, 11:37 PM

i think that, unfortunately, many people go into chat and leave with the same impression that you've come out with.... chat is really touch and go like that. i just try to avoid it. there was a while where i tried to use it, but it didn't work for me. however, i still find support here on the forums, and feel like i fit in here... i hope that you can feel the same....

do you want to talk about something on here? or through PM?

Fire Fly · 25-04-2012, 11:37 PM

Nirvanakurt, Im sorry that you feel that way...

Im here if you feel like talking. Chat room 4 although it says general chit chat isnt allowed id aload of rubbish - no one listen to it.

Anyway pm me or w.e if you want to talk x

BoundNoMore · 25-04-2012, 11:41 PM

I am so sorry you feel ignored.
I know you don't know me, but my PM box is always open. I will talk to and listen to you.

nomophobia · 25-04-2012, 11:41 PM

Sorry to hear you are feeling like this :hug: I'm new to the site but so far people have been supportive and welcoming to me. If you think you are a handful could you try to work on changing that?
I hope things get better for you x

[Luna] · 25-04-2012, 11:44 PM

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Originally Posted by nirvanakurt

I go into chat hoping that someone will give a crap,

Well, that was your first mistake.
Stick to the forums, I think most people find them more supportive.
Chat is very fast paced and it's easy for members to feel ignored (when usually they've just fallen through the cracks of the conversation).

Don't be disheartened.
Take care.

Mechanical_Princess · 26-04-2012, 12:21 AM

I'm so sorry that you feel that way >>huggs<< Feel free to message me anytime!! I love to talk... it's getting me to be quiet that's the problem lol.

AquariusTaurus413 · 26-04-2012, 01:27 PM

I'm sorry you feel that way! I haven't used the chat yet, but I know chat rooms like that tend to be very touch and go and a lot of times you fall through the cracks of the conversation. My inbox is always open if you want to talk. Granted I'm not all that good at giving advice, but if you want someone to listen, I'm here ^^