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Old 25-07-2019, 11:53 PM   #1
Darkwings44
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scared to have girlfriend?

ive wanting a girlfriend for many months now....(im gay is that ok?) but i dont know if i can have one because of the abuse that ive went through..........

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Old 26-07-2019, 03:00 PM   #2
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People who have been subjected to abuse often struggle with wanting relationships but not wanting to get too close, or being afraid of the vulnerability that comes with a relationship, or they may feel they don't deserve one.

You deserve, and can have, a relationship. It's okay to want that.

Do you see a therapist you can talk about this with? Struggling with intimacy and relationships is common but can take a lot of working through.

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Old 31-07-2019, 10:06 PM   #3
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It’s all of that to be honest......
Thank you
Well I am seeing a therapist but I haven’t told her about this yet.......

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