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Old 10-12-2018, 02:27 AM   #1
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How do you get over someone

I started dating my ex when I was 13, he was my first boyfriend, we broke up around my 20th birthday. I broke up with him because I realized we were codependent and that wasn't okay. I took a year break from dating. I've been dating my fiance for five or six years now. He is my second boyfriend.

I still love my ex has intensely as I did when I was dating him. Nothing has faded.

How do I make it fade?

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Old 22-12-2018, 09:33 PM   #2
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I guess to a certain extent you'll always have some feelings for your ex, but it does sound like you might need some help getting to the stage where those feelings are manageable and not interfering with your current relationship.

Have you spoken to your fiance about this? I realise that doesn't sound fun, but perhaps being open about it (if you haven't done so already) might help as trying not to feel something and keep it hidden tends to only make you feel it more!

Would you consider talking to a counsellor about this?

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