The Borderline Personality Disorder Thread

[Shrink]

hey everyone.

does anyone else find themselves overreacting to small changes in plans or small things going wrong in general? The smallest thing sets me off completely. I can be fine and then suicidal after the smallest thing. I feel like i'm losing it. I feel like a toddler. Its so stupid.

[ferretmonster]

oh yeah i definatley get that, especially when i'm in a low state to start with, i've had the screaming ab dabs over hating my hair, spilling a drink.

[Tig]

I can get like that as well Shrink.

Ferret, I'm having a bit of a tough time at the moment with lots of stuff but trying to keep safe - physically more than anything. How are you doing?

[ferretmonster]

want to talk about it? u can pm if you want x

[Cryptic.]

Just thought I'd send hugs and love and sprinkles and rainbows and hope and lovely things that you like and I could go on and on!!! to everyone here especially those who are finding things difficult.

Always here if anyone wants/needs to chat.

x

[Doikers]

Oh yeah Shrink , I definatly get that too .

*Hands out Muffins*

[Shrink]

how do i stop it? its making everyone hate me :(

[Pomegranate]

Hello threadlings

How is everyone? Sorry for not being around much, I've been reading (in the least stalkerish way possible) though x

[Tig]

*waves to Pomegranate*

xx

[ferretmonster]

I'm not sure Shrink, its a difficult one and perhaps we are not the best people to ask tbh

[Tig]

I would agree that we probably aren't the best people to ask, as we are caught up in it ourselves. It might be better to seek some professional advice or from somebody recovered who has the skills? x

[Bleeding Angel]

meds? But as said its something you many only be able to change with therapy.

[crazykat]

Here if you need to talk Lotti *cuddles*

I hate unpacking too Mark but as Lotti said just take your time and you will get there.

Ferret glad your enjoying having mop around :)

Shrink I get like that too, I guess therapy could help

How are you Sarah?

How are you Emma?

How are you Mari?

[Cryptic.]

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Originally Posted by crazykat

Here if you need to talk Lotti *cuddles*

I hate unpacking too Mark but as Lotti said just take your time and you will get there.

Ferret glad your enjoying having mop around :)

Shrink I get like that too, I guess therapy could help

How are you Sarah?

How are you Emma?

How are you Mari?

I'm struggling but I'm here still! Obviously :)

How are you doing?

P.S. I love your sig! It's from Evan Almighty, right?
x

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Originally Posted by Pomegranate

Hello threadlings

How is everyone? Sorry for not being around much, I've been reading (in the least stalkerish way possible) though x

Hey hon, how have you been doing? Long time no talk!
x

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Originally Posted by Shrink

hey everyone.

does anyone else find themselves overreacting to small changes in plans or small things going wrong in general? The smallest thing sets me off completely. I can be fine and then suicidal after the smallest thing. I feel like i'm losing it. I feel like a toddler. Its so stupid.

Hey Shrink, I get like that, too.

I've actually been reading about BPD
(some really good books, might be useful to maybe get some and learn more about it? Or search online about it?)
and it's been quite informative and so much info about why we are the way we are, how our brains are actually different, too, chemically and such.
Learning about each individual symptom, too.
Learning about, well, loads!
Be here forever if I listed it all!
Generally just learning about the disorder from all areas.

Some therapies are out there to help us with our BPD and the symptoms we experience(as everyone is different in how they suffer with BPD) and how to cope better with it, learning skills, etc.

Maybe ask your professional(s)/your team/GP if you don't see anyone, about seeking some therapy/help/support for your BPD?

x

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Originally Posted by Tig

I can get like that as well Shrink.

Ferret, I'm having a bit of a tough time at the moment with lots of stuff but trying to keep safe - physically more than anything. How are you doing?

*cuddles for you sis* Love you tons,always here for you, and if you want some help with what's happening at the moment, I won't go into details incase you don't want it public, but if you need any help then let me know yeah? Researching about things for you, or calling people for you, etc etc.

Be safe please? xx

[crazykat]

Here if you need to talk Sarah, yeah it is from Evan Almighty. Thinking of probably changing my sig soon though. I get bored easily

[Cryptic.]

Thankyou, I too am here if you need to talk x

I loveeee Evan & Bruce almighty :D
Ha, I get like that too, but your sig is awesome, I think you should keep it, but I know how boredom gets, and how you think "damn, I should put this / do this instead!" :P

[crazykat]

Thanks hun, I will probably keep it for a bit longer. Damn my legs are achey for some reason

[Cryptic.]

Oh that's not good. :( Do you have any painkillers to help with it? Maybe also having a bath and to relax and heat could help with the aching? Or just sit and rest and chill? x

[crazykat]

I hate baths but I might have a hot shower in a min and then just chill out

[Cryptic.]

Good idea :) I hope the aching goes away soon! x