Hi,
Please make sure that you look after yourself as well as helping your friend. I know that sounds a bit harsh for me to say as the immediate thing in my comment but sometimes we can get so carried away in supporting someone, we can lose what's going on with ourselves and end up feeling a lot worse as a consequence.
That being said, you sound a wonderful friend to have. Your friend is lucky to have you by your side and it sounds as though she is aware of this somewhat, as she told you that she has trouble eating. Whether it is or isn't an eating disorder isn't especially important, it's just a couple of words and doesn't really change anything, your friend is struggling with what she's feeling.
Perhaps you could suggest that she speak to someone professional, make a post on here or email the RYL Supporters (support@recoveryourlife.com). Have you asked her why she isn't happy with what she looks like and encouraged her to talk about it with you? Don't push it, just let her know that you are there for her if she needs you to be. Having someone that is willing to support can mean the world.
Take care.
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