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Old 06-01-2020, 11:54 AM   #21
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I'm not actually sure
I'm going to make an advanced directive saying I don't want to have ECT again, I'm not sure if I can put those things on it as well. I will ask.
Thats a good point
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Old 06-01-2020, 03:15 PM   #22
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I think you can put most reasonable things on an advance directive as long as you are considered to be mentally well at the point when you write it. It's definitely good to have one.

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Old 06-01-2020, 03:34 PM   #23
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I think I'll do that then

I'm not doing too well
I was going to text my CC but I'm too scared
I'm going to the cmht tomorrow for my depo so I might ask if she's in and have a brief chat with her



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Old 06-01-2020, 04:24 PM   #24
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If it's easier to ask at the depot clinic then do that. Do you think you would manage to though?

Is there anything you can do to make today a bit better?





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Old 06-01-2020, 04:38 PM   #25
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I'm not sure
I know I should

I'm going to have a shower later which sometimes helps
Just trying distraction really



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Old 06-01-2020, 06:35 PM   #26
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I know it's really scary but it would be more scary if you left things and they got worse and out of your control. You can do this.





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Old 06-01-2020, 07:12 PM   #27
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Thanks lindsay
That's true

I've had a shower and it hasn't helped
I'm not sure what else to do



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Old 07-01-2020, 01:56 PM   #28
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How are things today? I hope you manage to talk to your CC today or even just someone at the depot clinic.





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Old 07-01-2020, 02:13 PM   #29
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Things aren't much better
Thanks for asking
I didn't manage to speak to anyone
I almost knocked on the reception door but ended up not doing it



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Old 07-01-2020, 03:26 PM   #30
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Are you managing with things though? Do you not have an appointment arranged with your CC? If not it would probably be a good idea to try and arrange one just to discuss things and check in with her. Even if you don't want to go into everything, just having some contact with her might be useful.





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Old 07-01-2020, 04:28 PM   #31
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Well, I'm not in any danger which is good. So I guess I am managing
I don't have an appointment with my CC
It's a bit weird as she's usually very good with contacting me and I'm meant to be seeing her every week. I haven't seen or heard from her since the 11th of December. It is strange.



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Old 07-01-2020, 05:31 PM   #32
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That's not great. Do you think you might get in touch with her just to say you were expecting an appointment?





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Old 07-01-2020, 06:12 PM   #33
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I should do. I don't want to come across as needy though



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Old 07-01-2020, 07:27 PM   #34
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That's definitely not needy, maybe she will be grateful that you're on the ball enough to realise that you were supposed to be seen. It's ok to ask for help when you need it.





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Old 07-01-2020, 08:08 PM   #35
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Yeah I suppose so
I'll try and text her tomorrow



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Old 08-01-2020, 11:44 AM   #36
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Is there anything that will make it easier for you to text your CC?





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Old 08-01-2020, 12:53 PM   #37
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I text her asking if we could sort out the advance directive at some point. It does need to be done.
Although I have a sneaking suspicion that she doesn't work on Wednesdays so I may not get a reply today.
But I've done it anyway
I just had to not think about it too much and just do it



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Old 08-01-2020, 01:51 PM   #38
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Well done, I'm proud of you. I hope she gets back in touch soon and you can talk through things.

How are you doing today?





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Old 08-01-2020, 01:56 PM   #39
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Thank you
She did text back and I'm seeing her next week

I'm not so good
I've had 2 big unexpected bills go out today which means I'm in minus numbers in my bank account so I'm really stressed about that. I don't get paid until Tuesday.
But I guess that's my own fault for not allowing for extra expenses



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Old 08-01-2020, 02:01 PM   #40
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Is that ok with you to wait until next week?

I'm sorry you're stressed with money stuff, that must be really horrible. Will the payment on Tuesday help resolve things?





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