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Old 07-10-2007, 11:31 PM   #1
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New & Somewhat nervous...

To whomever may be reading this post...

I wish that I'd found this website years ago - even having only spent 20 minutes looking around RYL so far, I can feel the strength and hope eminating from it.

I need advice on how to regain confidence after many years of SH in various forms.

I'm doing ok at the moment, but don't think I've fully resolved things. Years of putting myself down is now a constant part of my life and although I'm able to control the outward effects most of the time, I am struggling to find any confidence to go out; to get a job I could enjoy; get the most out of my friendships - I feel mentally battered & bruised and don't know where to turn.

Any advice/comments/friendship/understanding will be gratefully received.


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Old 07-10-2007, 11:39 PM   #2
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Hey there *waves*
Welcome to RYL!!!
After reading what you wrote, i can relate to alot of it, so if you want someone to talk to about it, someone who understands then please feel free to PM me whenever.
*hugs* xoxoxox

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Old 08-10-2007, 12:06 AM   #3
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Welcome to RYL
I hope you find the support you need on RYL
I know it has helped me alot
If you ever need anything or just wanna chat PM me
Take care of yourself
Kat xxx

"Recovery is something that you have to work
on every single day and it's
something that doesn't
get a day off."

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Old 08-10-2007, 12:51 AM   #4
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hello and welcome to ryl!!!
Hope u find everything u need on here
Feel free to contact me anytime
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Old 08-10-2007, 01:14 AM   #5
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Hi welcome to ryl i hope you enjoy being here and get the support you need. If ever you need to talk please dont hesitate to pm me. Take care.

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Old 08-10-2007, 01:50 AM   #6
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and all the above

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Old 08-10-2007, 03:33 AM   #7
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" I wake up feeling convicted, / I know something's not right / Re-acquaint my knees with the carpet //
They've been swimming in the wrong waters / Now they're pulling me down / But I am clinging to you, never letting go / 'Cause I know that you'll lift me out //
Have your way here / Keep me afloat / 'Cause I know I'll sink without you / Take this ocean of pain that is mine / Throw me a lifeline " - Lifeline, Brooke Fraser

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Old 09-10-2007, 03:27 PM   #8
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Hi, welcome to RYL!
I can really relate to a lot of what you wrote there. I know that just being part of a supportive community like RYL and being able to give support too has done wonders for my confidence and I really hope that it can do the same for you too because no matter how many years you've been battling SH recovery is possible! I just hope RYL can be the first step along the road for you.
If you ever have any questions or you ever want to talk about anything please feel free to drop me a PM anytime.

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Old 12-10-2007, 10:59 AM   #9
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Hey... Reading through your post I could certainly relate to it... More than happy to offer friendship & understanding - advice might be harder but I'll try lol... PM me any time you need some support or just someone who is there...
Hope you find the help here that you deserve & need

'To me, happiness, true happiness
is when you can really dance with sad
I found a way to dance with sorrow...
And as soon as you have
rearranged the mess in your head
he will show up looking sane,
perfectly sane if I know Crazy' - Tori Amos

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Old 13-10-2007, 03:25 AM   #10
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welcome to the ryl boards, hope that you find all the support you need here.
i can relate to alot of what you posted so if you ever want to chat, feel free to pm me
take care

the most important things are the hardest things to say...
...And you make revelations that cost you the most, only to have people look at you in a funny way.
not understanding what you've said at all, or why you though it was so important that you almost cried when you were saying it.

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