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Old 16-09-2019, 07:23 PM   #1141
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Ok. Do you think that maybe, if that is the case, it has something to do with the other people actively being open to working with her?

I’m sorry you’re feeling alone and that the HCA ran out of time.





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Old 16-09-2019, 07:32 PM   #1142
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No apparently it isn't that.

Thanks. I'm in a terrible state. I really wish I hadn't seen the psychologist today it's made me a lot worse. I feel so hopeless.

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Old 17-09-2019, 04:12 AM   #1143
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Can't sleep. Written a letter to my psychologist saying how upset I am and how I can't see her anymore

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Old 17-09-2019, 02:28 PM   #1144
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I'm sorry you had a hard night/morning. Did it help to put your feelings into a letter? How are you now?





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Old 17-09-2019, 03:47 PM   #1145
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Thank you. Yes I think it's helping me to have some closure on the situation even though I'm still gutted. I feel awful. I'd be interested to know how she reacted to the letter but I guess it doesn't matter if I'm not seeing her again

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Old 17-09-2019, 03:48 PM   #1146
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How do you imagine she might react/how would you want her to react?





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Old 17-09-2019, 04:17 PM   #1147
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I really have no idea. I don't know. I guess it doesn't matter now that it's over.

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Old 17-09-2019, 06:14 PM   #1148
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I saw her in the corridor after she'd seen her favourite patient for 2 hours but she didn't come up to me or say anything. I don't know what to think. I guess I made it clear I don't wanna see her anymore so what do I expect.

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Old 17-09-2019, 06:53 PM   #1149
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Maybe it's in the patient's care plan to have a lot of interaction. I think the psychologist is probably trying to respect your wishes that you made clear in the letter. Are you a bit unsure if you've made the right decision about not seeing her or do you think it's for the best?





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Old 17-09-2019, 07:11 PM   #1150
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I still think I made the right decision but I am gutted it's come to this. If I was gonna trust anyone it would have been her hands down. Oh well I guess I'll have to find another way of getting out of here.

My ward review is tomorrow and I'm anxious.

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Old 18-09-2019, 01:28 PM   #1151
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Just a thought, it sounds like you build up what people can offer you putting them on pedestals and expectations that they can't possibly meet. As soon as they fall short of this you shut down.

I wonder whether next time around it would be helpful to have a conversation about what to expect, and some ground rules for both sides.



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Old 18-09-2019, 01:47 PM   #1152
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Good luck today, I hope the review is productive.



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Old 18-09-2019, 02:51 PM   #1153
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Thank you my review went quite well thanks I felt more comfortable with this psych as I have a good history with him but I'm still not allowed leave.

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Old 18-09-2019, 02:59 PM   #1154
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I'm glad your review went well, will you be seeing this psych all the time now or is it different ones?





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Old 18-09-2019, 03:30 PM   #1155
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Thank you. I always see him but usually with a consultant but he is currently acting consultant so it was just him and my fav nurse and a junior Dr in there today

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Old 18-09-2019, 06:26 PM   #1156
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Just spoke to the assistant psychologist. Think she's aware of the issue between me and my (ex) psychologist because of the sort of questions she was asking. At least she made an effort with me. Don't know when I'll next get to see her.

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Old 19-09-2019, 12:46 PM   #1157
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Did it help to speak with the assistant psychologist? How are things today?





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Old 19-09-2019, 05:26 PM   #1158
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I don't know. I guess it helped that I got to put my side of things across and it allowed me to talk about things that were upsetting me. I'm really not sure how much it helped though. I feel awful today and had to walk out a group.

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Old 19-09-2019, 06:15 PM   #1159
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I'm glad you got to express your thoughts and feelings anyway rather than having them unheard. Do you know what's making you feel so awful today?





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Old 19-09-2019, 07:28 PM   #1160
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I think it's the increase in medication and the whole thing with the psychologist and my family

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