Okay, definitely time for an update!
My wife and I have done a 180. My feelings for her sister are still there, stronger than ever, but my wife told me a few days ago that she was starting to get used to it. More than that, yesterday she actually told me that part of her wants it to happen. That's right! She is seeing the idea in a very positive light, contrary to my expectations. She's been actively trying to get her sister to talk to me more (as friends, so we can get to know each other better). We have talked about how happy it makes me when we are all spending time together, and she says she loves seeing the look on my face when I'm enjoying their company. She really seems 100% okay with how I feel, and not at all insecure. That may be because we've become more affectionate with each other here lately, and we talk a lot about her sister and what would/wouldn't change if I had a relationship with her too.
I don't know what's ahead, but I had to share this unexpected turn of events. I will still want to be cautious moving forward. But right now, I'm even more in love with my wife than before because I feel like she finally understands what I'm seeing and feeling. Anyway, sorry this was so long-winded.
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