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Old 29-05-2019, 03:13 PM   #321
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Thank you. Unfortunately I self harmed twice last night. I've been in bed all day. I feel so ashamed.

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Old 29-05-2019, 04:14 PM   #322
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It's ok to stay in bed if you're exhausted, maybe you just need some rest time after the busy social days you have had. Did you mention to whoever you were seeing on Tuesday that you're having a hard time?





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Old 29-05-2019, 08:03 PM   #323
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Thanks but I just feel so bad about the self harming. Yes I saw my care coordinator and told her. Didn't really talk much with my support worker yesterday as we only had an hour. Hope I can get through tonight okay.

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Old 30-05-2019, 08:09 PM   #324
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What makes you feel bad about self harming? How are you doing today?





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Old 31-05-2019, 08:26 PM   #325
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I don't know I just feel embarrassed and ashamed. I'm feeling awful atm.

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Old 01-06-2019, 01:35 PM   #326
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I can understand feeling embarrassed and ashamed, that can't be helping with how you're feeling overall at the moment. What does this weekend look like for you?





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Old 01-06-2019, 09:27 PM   #327
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I'm recovering from last night after having a couple of incidents involving self harming and going somewhere I shouldn't and being brought back to hospital by police then assessed by crisis team then saw home treatment today so I'd just hope I can rest really as I'm so tired

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Old 03-06-2019, 05:47 AM   #328
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Hey, I'm so sorry everything went so wrong. How are you doing? Did you manage to get some rest and respite?

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Old 04-06-2019, 01:48 PM   #329
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I did but my family dog died suddenly yesterday morning and I'm devastated.

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Old 04-06-2019, 05:25 PM   #330
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That's really sad, I'm sorry. :( It must be especially hard since it was sudden. Please be kind to yourself. How are you managing?





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Old 04-06-2019, 11:49 PM   #331
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Yes it's been so hard. It's just heartbreaking for me and my family. We are supporting each other so I guess that's how I'm getting through it. But it's hard at times to be strong for them.

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Old 05-06-2019, 05:08 PM   #332
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Trying to be strong for each other is good but you also need to be able to express how you are feeling. I hope you can all take care of each other.





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Old 10-06-2019, 08:18 PM   #333
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Thanks. I'm having a really hard time at the moment. I don't know how to carry on.

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Old 11-06-2019, 04:42 PM   #334
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Carrying on is simple, but I know it's hard to feel the pain that life brings and deal with it. What things are difficult for you right now, anything additional to the death of your dog? Are you speaking to people about how you're feeling?





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Old 12-06-2019, 12:12 AM   #335
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I don't know I don't know what's wrong with me. All I know is I'm taking the loss of my dog very hard, but I was already struggling anyway before that happened. I'm under home treatment so I'm talking to them. Talked to my care co today and my support worker and my church mentor. I've got a lot of support so I'm really thankful but I still don't know how to get through all this.

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Old 12-06-2019, 02:40 AM   #336
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It sounds like it was kind of a tip of the iceberg for you. The last straw so to speak. I'm sorry that you're dealing with this in a difficult way and know that you are being supported and hopefully gentle hugs coming your way will help.



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Old 12-06-2019, 03:04 PM   #337
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It can feel like a huge amount to cope with when you struggle generally and then have other things thrown on top of that. I think you can get through this though, but I know it hurts. Use all the support you have while it's there for you.





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Old 14-06-2019, 12:49 PM   #338
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Thank you both for your replies and for your kind words. I'm finding things so hard to deal with at the moment. It's definitely made things a whole lot worse, losing my dog. Thanks I'm trying to use all the support I can but sometimes I wonder what the point is.

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Old 14-06-2019, 04:00 PM   #339
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I think things would be easier while engaging with support than if you had no support at all, that's the point really. Maybe things aren't helping much but it's better than having to deal with everything alone.





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Old 14-06-2019, 06:15 PM   #340
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Yes that's true at least I feel quite supported at the moment I guess that helps a bit. I just wish I was improving more with my mood etc.

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