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Old 24-02-2015, 10:40 AM   #1
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Zurg - please just a hug or some love needed

I'm not a fan of making threads for others but I'll make an exception.

Zurg has been a member of this site since forever and has helped so many people over the years.

She's the least needy, pain in the ass person i know but she thinks she is. She won't make a post because she thinks she'll come across as needy.


Kat has been so good to me over the years since I left RYL and we've kept in touch. She's sobrave and has gone through so much **** it's untrue. She never complains and apologises when writing to me to say she's struggling.

Wel she's just has some major trauma and I'm worried about her.

She's just a lovely lovely caring girl who I think needs a little love or just a hug.

I'll get killed for making this thread.

But please, if you know Zurg/Kat and you don't post anymore then just a hug would mean a lot.


Kat you're awesome. You're a great friend. You're so brave. You don't bother or annoy anyone.

Lots of love and hugs for you.

Matthew xxxxxxxxxxxxxx



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Old 24-02-2015, 01:02 PM   #2
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Hi Kat, I know you don't know me but I am so sorry to hear you're in so much pain. It sounds like you have had a terribly traumatic experience - you do not deserve suffering. I so hope you can allow yourself to be held by the people around you. You're not needy or a pain at all and deserve kindness and warmth. My thoughts are with you.

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Old 24-02-2015, 01:05 PM   #3
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*hugs for zurg*
Have seen you round, and appreciate the support you give people.
I hope your ok



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Old 24-02-2015, 01:30 PM   #4
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Kat I don't think we have ever spoken on a personal level but I have seen you around the boards and you are always there ready to lend a listening ear to someone. Let us now be here for you. We are here willing and ready to listen should you want to talk otherwise we are all willing to just sit with you. I am sorry things are so hard. *sits*



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Old 24-02-2015, 11:05 PM   #5
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I won't lie, i nearly cried when i read this.....

Thank you Matthew. I did make a thread and i got lots of hugs. It really means the world to me to feel that i am not alone right now, so thank you all for your words and for your hugs. It makes a huge difference to me because i find it hard to reach out. I am trying to get better at asking for help but it takes time to change 33 years worth of thinking patterns and behaviours.

I will get through this. It is hard but i don't need it to be easy i just need it to be possible. But your words and hugs really mean a lot to me and makes me feel like i still have a 'home' on the internet.

So thank you again. You're awesome people!! xxx

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Old 25-02-2015, 12:50 AM   #6
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Hej :)

Jeg har ikke så meget at sige men kunne ikke bare ignorere den her tråd. Jeg håber virkelig at du går nogle bedre dage i møde.

Im thinking of you. Please take care of yourself.



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Old 25-02-2015, 10:00 PM   #7
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You are a truly wonderful person, right to the inside. Please know we are always here for you, you've given us so much it is the least we can do. Keep holding on xx

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Old 25-02-2015, 10:40 PM   #8
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Sends a hug your way xxx



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Old 26-02-2015, 02:24 AM   #9
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Hey, i remember you Kat, *hugs* sorry you are having a hard time right now.



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Old 14-04-2015, 01:51 PM   #10
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More hugs for you cus you're struggling and you deserve them and you smell ;p



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Old 14-04-2015, 03:20 PM   #11
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You are wonderful xoxo

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Old 26-05-2015, 01:23 PM   #12
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Kat I think I remember you from my old times on here. I'm talking 2004! Much love to you xoxo

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Old 26-05-2015, 10:24 PM   #13
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Hi, I don't know you Zurg, but I'm thinking of you and hope you feel more positive soon *huge hugs*

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Old 28-05-2015, 07:29 AM   #14
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Kat, I remember you from way back with my old profile. I don't know whatto say, but I wanted to offer you some gentle (((((((hugs))))))) right now <3

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