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Old 05-07-2018, 08:23 AM   #61
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Would going to the hospital or your gp today be an option?

I hope your cpn is in today.



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Old 05-07-2018, 06:51 PM   #62
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Lillie <3

I was wondering if going to your GP would be easier? Isn't it very close to where you live?

Please reach out for help. I know everything seems like too much but if you can get your wounds looked at that will be one less thing to deal with.

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Old 05-07-2018, 07:27 PM   #63
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Didn't call my cpn. Theres no point, not like theres anything she can do. There was also a lot of drama at work.

GP is only ever open when I'm at work. I've made an appointment for Tuesday morning as I asked my cpn for dressings 2 weeks ago and she hasn't got me anything sorted.

Took the dressings off to shower and assess the damage. Yeah didnt magically get better :/ Not sure what to do about that.

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Old 06-07-2018, 08:45 AM   #64
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Please seek medical attention for your wounds, you know you need to.

I know you are tired and things are super difficult but your body fighting an infection won't help any of this.



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Old 06-07-2018, 12:54 PM   #65
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There's no point. They can't stitch now. Just gotta live with it.

Want to give up. I honestly have nothing left. I am out of fight.



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Old 06-07-2018, 12:57 PM   #66
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Are there treatment room nurses at your health centre that could help you with wound care? I know you feel awful, you're continuing to fight and that's really brave. I wish you could get a break or find something that helps. Would you consider trying to phone your CPN again even just to offload?





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Old 06-07-2018, 01:20 PM   #67
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I have no time. Things are only ever open when I'm at work.



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Old 06-07-2018, 01:36 PM   #68
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Can you afford to take 1-2 hours off work, in the morning, and go in for the rest of the day?




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Old 06-07-2018, 04:11 PM   #69
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Even if they can't stitch they can give you antibiotics.

Work can absolutely wait - you are so much more important. If you don't go now something far worse will happen the longer you ignore it and make excuses... and then you'll end up missing a lot more work.

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Old 06-07-2018, 05:58 PM   #70
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Even if they can't stitch they can give you antibiotics.

Work can absolutely wait - you are so much more important. If you don't go now something far worse will happen the longer you ignore it and make excuses... and then you'll end up missing a lot more work.
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Old 06-07-2018, 07:52 PM   #71
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You can't just take an hour off work. It isn't how things happen.

None look overly infected anymore. Just big.

Had a message on my phone after work. Was meant to be meeting my CPN today. I thought it was Monday.

Feel crap. Nothing helps. I'm so low. I'm sick to death of myself. I could disappear and people would only notice when they needed me. Not because they care.



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Old 06-07-2018, 08:35 PM   #72
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We'd notice because we care. And I'm confident enough in that to speak for the whole forum.

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Old 06-07-2018, 09:11 PM   #73
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I'm pretty sure most places of work would understand if you gave them notice and told them you had an important doctor's appointment lovely.

And we do care, believe it or not.



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Old 06-07-2018, 09:12 PM   #74
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Also just thinking on my feet here, do you not have a walk in/out of hours centre you could perhaps attend either after work or over the weekend? I've done that when it's been impossible to get there/things have cropped up out of hours.



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Old 06-07-2018, 09:27 PM   #75
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i'm sorry. I'm getting rapid mood switches and moods in which I'm convinced everyone hates me. It goes after a bit then I regret being alive and hurtful. Im sorry :(

Didn't think of that buttons! We have a minor injuries.

I'm going to take myself to A and E soon. I cut earlier. I despise myself. Not sure I deserve help. And town will be full of drunks.



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Old 06-07-2018, 09:43 PM   #76
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It's alright I think a lot of us do that from time to time :P

I'm glad you are going to A&E-if you think about it, sooner you get there the less drunk the idiots will be-logic(ish). Hope it goes as well as possible for you. And that if other issues crop up and you don't feel able to attend A&E you will consider your minor injuries centre.



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Old 06-07-2018, 09:52 PM   #77
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True logic. IM stuffing some toast in and a cuppa as dinner didnt happen. Then its bandage leg-get dressed-leave. I can do this. I think :/



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Old 06-07-2018, 09:53 PM   #78
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No real words but I have been reading and checking for updates. People do care. I hope it goes ok at a&e. You can totally do this.





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Old 06-07-2018, 09:55 PM   #79
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You can do this, Lillie and you are doing it.

I hope a&e goes okay.



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Old 06-07-2018, 10:47 PM   #80
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Ok after some time being even more of an idiot I have managed to force myself out the house. Couldn't decide on coat and shoes. Still not happy but whatever. At least I'm out and limping to the bus stop.



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