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01-05-2008, 07:42 AM
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Hope...
Join Date: Sep 2007
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Hey hun..
How are you now?
I'm really sorry it's this hard for you..
Please keep talking, no-one here will think you crazy...and it usually helps to 'get it out' whatever it is..I know it's easier said than done though..
I think craving validation is very common..I know I do it, especially if you hate yourself then there is only one way to feel reassured and validated and that is for someone else to tell you that they love you etc..and then what makes it harder is even when friends/family do tell you they love you or you're beautiful... you can't fully believe them because the belief that you're horrible..undeserving etc...goes too deep. That's what I find anyway..
Have to keep trying to believe them though!
Not sure if that made sense..
I don't really know what to say ..sorry... except that we honestly care about you here...and you're not alone.
Please hold on...and stay safe...
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'Won’t you run, fly, open up your lungs tonight, breathe freedom for the first time in your life..' I WILL keep smiling...I will..
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01-05-2008, 07:47 AM
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Brighton
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You can get through this.
Are you talking to someone properly about your feelings?
You need as much support as you can get right now.
I know how you feel about wanting to be loved and it will happen and you've got your friends for now.
Just keep going x
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01-05-2008, 07:48 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: London area
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Loneliness is a very valid reason for feeling sad. It's most definitely not 'nothing'. Isolation can be one of the most aching painful things there is.
I also know how sore the pain can be for needing validation and reassurance.
You're not a bad or replusive person, you may be facing some really uncomfortable thoughts, but that doesn't define who you are as a person.
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01-05-2008, 09:13 AM
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You Scare Me To Death
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: England
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I really relate to what you're saying and if there's anything I can do please let me know and I'll do it in a heart beat because I know exactly as I guess many others do, how much it hurts to feel that way, if ever you need to talk Please PM me..
much love
xxx
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