Adult - Help! I need my libido back!
Hello guys,
I've been going through a big depressive episode for a couple of years, that has come and gone. I've cut for the first time in almost 2 years.
I have a fiancé I adore, I'm very attracted to her, I love her, but I have no sex drive! I promised her I'd never 'fake it' or have sex if it wasn't what I really wanted, and I never have. At this point the dry spell is stretching on and on, and it's like my body has no nerve endings. I don't want her to feel bad or think it's her, but I just feel so detached from my body, I have no drive, no horniness, no libido! How can I work on this, how can I get my sex drive back! I used to struggle to keep my hands off her, I still look at her and think wow, but there's some block I can't overcome. Please help me!!
I feel like I'm failing her as a partner, I feel like there is something wrong with me
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