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Old 18-11-2008, 02:33 AM   #61
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does it really matter wat out sexuallity is or isnt?
i hate how it is made such a big deal ....why cant we just be who we want to be?
because our world is not comforable with whats diffent then them...........



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Old 23-11-2008, 01:05 PM   #62
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Im so sick of not knowing what i am. My mnate thinks im a lesbain because shes always like "hes soo cute and my ype whats ur type" im like well ermm....
I havent kissed a lad and im 15 i havent kissed a girl either
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Old 18-12-2008, 10:54 PM   #63
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I used to think i was bisexual, i went through at least two years of debating with myself, but now i just couldnt face being with girl. Im not sure wether thats something to do with the reputaion and critism that follows it, but its something i dont think i could face.
But like youve all said, things change, and you can't put a lable on yourself. You just have to follow your instincts and go with what your comfortable doing.
Easier Said Than Done.
My friend recently admited to being bisexual, and having feelings for me. This completely threw me off balance. Its not that i have a problem with people being gay/lesbian (and everyother sexual orientation) but i just dont know how to process that information.
I think thats were society has gone wrong, people can accept it, they just handle it all wrong.
Even so, that does not rule out the fact that there are some total Pr*cks out there, determined to make other people miserable.
To be honest i honour and respect everyone that can be comfortable with their sexuality/gender. And even if your not comfortable, you should be. You shouldnt be treated any differently. Thats not humane otherwise.

Im Rambling. =] Sorry. It just gets to me.
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Old 01-01-2009, 07:46 AM   #64
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I want a girlfriend.

Ho-hum. Ho-hum.
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Old 02-01-2009, 05:57 PM   #65
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i like to think i dont 'fall in love with' a reproductive organ, i fall in love with people




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Old 02-02-2009, 09:16 PM   #66
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I dont know if im a bit young to be thinking about this but ever since i was little i wanted to be a boy. My freind Antonia(19years old/16 wene i met her) had a impact on me as well seeing as she was my best freind and olso wanted to be a boy, she used to come around my house with her chest bandaged, and to see that i wasent alone in this gave me the curage to accept it. If i had to lable myself is say i was bi, yet i carnt see myself having sex with anyone els, i just dont like sex full stop. But i am attracted to people) i would never have sex with a boy or a girl right now, as a girl, but if i were a man i wouldent find it so horrible to have sex with anuther man. I dont know if iv been influensed on this aswell seeing as my brothers gay?

I dont know, i just had to get that off my chest. I wanna go on and on and on but i wont lol.

Im just wondring, is this normal? copz thinking about it makes me feel so alone.



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Old 11-02-2009, 03:12 AM   #67
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so when i saw this thread i get really excited. mainly because i know im not the only one, feeling so dang confused.

i say im straight(im a girly) and have a really great boyfriend but i think i may be bi. but i really dont care about labels i just like who i like. which really confuses my friends.

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Old 16-02-2009, 10:30 PM   #68
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I'm not exactly confused about my sexuality. I know. It's telling other people. They try to convince me one way or another and I just tend to agree with people. They'll get a shock some day :)

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Old 24-02-2009, 12:06 AM   #69
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Totally unrelated, but I love your avatar faye.

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Old 24-02-2009, 04:46 PM   #70
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arrgh i hate this, I hate being a lesbian, it screws up all my friendships

Why can't I just be attracted to guys like normal girls?



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Old 26-02-2009, 01:36 PM   #71
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I hear you L&L, I feel the same way all the time whenever I allow myself to think it.

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Old 28-02-2009, 10:37 AM   #72
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Asexual: A person who does not experience sexual attraction.

Couple of links from the AVEN site for more information on asexuality:
http://www.asexuality.org/home/overview.html
http://www.asexuality.org/home/general.html

There's another gender forum I'm on called What Is Gender? that is interesting to read through.


I've spent my life being quietly confused about my sexuality and gender, but I'm pretty much 100% certain now that I'm asexual and neutrois. Feel free to PM me if you want to chat or something.



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Old 28-02-2009, 04:42 PM   #73
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arrgh i hate this, I hate being a lesbian, it screws up all my friendships

Why can't I just be attracted to guys like normal girls?
because normal girls are boring


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Old 01-03-2009, 06:48 PM   #74
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Asexual: A person who does not experience sexual attraction.

Couple of links from the AVEN site for more information on asexuality:
http://www.asexuality.org/home/overview.html
http://www.asexuality.org/home/general.html

There's another gender forum I'm on called What Is Gender? that is interesting to read through.


I've spent my life being quietly confused about my sexuality and gender, but I'm pretty much 100% certain now that I'm asexual and neutrois. Feel free to PM me if you want to chat or something.
hmm... that was very informative, raises some questions I've been having. thanks

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Old 03-03-2009, 09:03 PM   #75
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Old 08-03-2009, 08:28 AM   #76
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was bi then not and bi again... does anyone agree tha you never really stop being what you are even when you think you have.... o.O sort of made more sense in my hed.



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Old 09-03-2009, 01:35 AM   #77
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i dont think so

i think you understanding your sexuality can change though.


why does my gender bother me so badly?
i don't want to be a girl...
i don't really want to be a boy either though... i'm not really comfertable with my body.

I DONT WANT F*CKING BOOBS

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Old 10-03-2009, 01:16 AM   #78
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aw *hugs* i used to be called a man sooo ofte nwhen i was younger because i used to sweat a lot... made me want a sex change.... but now iv gotten over it and i hope you figure out that theres nothing wrong with you and your made a girl for a reason



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Old 11-03-2009, 12:38 AM   #79
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phsically, i'm TOTALLY female...
i don't act like a chick tho.

will figure it out at some point. Hm, isn't 14 a lil old to be questioning one's gender though?....
meh.

want.. third.. option....

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Old 11-03-2009, 05:34 PM   #80
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i would say 14 is probably a prime time to be questioning your gender, sexuality, everything really, because your hormones are everywhere and so are your thoughts and feelings. Plus your breasts and everything are still growing and your body is changing/has changed.

if having breasts is relaly really bothering you, you can strap them down and stuff.

Try not to dwell on it or put pressure on yourself to make a decision about how you want to live your life, it'll all come eventually.

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