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Old 19-02-2011, 09:27 PM   #1
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Is it normal for a 19 to still be a virgin? (Could be graphic)

Well the title says it all.

I'm 19 and a virgin. I was in college full of girls who just wanted to have sex with the next boy that came along.

I kinda told someone else and she was shocked at 19 I was still a virgin.

I just want to feel like it is normal to be one at 19.



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Old 19-02-2011, 09:35 PM   #2
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19-year-old virgin here. I often wonder myself if it's normal, so I can't really give you an answer, I just though you'd like to know you're not alone.

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Old 19-02-2011, 09:40 PM   #3
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I don't think that it's unusual at all, I know people of that age and older who are still virgins. I think that it's perfectly fine for you to still be a virgin at 19, it's not that old at all (:
Everyone is going to meet the right person at different times in their lives and everyone is going to be ready at different ages. So don't worry too much about it, and please don't feel the need to have sex just to 'fit in'.

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Old 19-02-2011, 10:09 PM   #4
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I didn't have sex with a man until i was 22/23. You are not abnormal. Waiting is not a bad thing, and I have no regrets about waiting until I was "older." And in all honesty, sex the first time is very overrated. lol



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Old 19-02-2011, 11:09 PM   #5
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I'd be willing to bet that some of your friends who are also your age are still virgins. I wouldn't worry about it.

A lot of people put emphasis on how young they were when they lost their virginity, and a lot of people also regret their first time. See the correlation?

I think waiting is good, you should make sure you're completely ready, and certainly not offer yourself on a plate to anyone who offers.

With sex, there's not really a right or a wrong, just go with it and it will happen eventually, if you want it to.

But seriously, don't expect your first time to be all fireworks and joy!





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Old 19-02-2011, 11:11 PM   #6
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I was unlucky in the sense that I had the option of when I lost my virginity taken away from me. If I had been given the option, I lost my virginity at the age of 20.



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Old 20-02-2011, 12:31 AM   #7
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Another 19 year-old virgin here. :) It's not a big deal at all!

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Old 20-02-2011, 12:37 AM   #8
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its normal dont be worrying,
these days if you havent had sex yet your class as a loser but really its silly, if you dont want to have sex dont have it till you're ready... my ex/kinda still boyfriend is 22 and he only lost his with me, so there is seriously nothing wrong with being a 19 year old virgin *hugs* xx





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Old 20-02-2011, 12:42 AM   #9
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I live in a house of 5 girls, all who are 21. I'm the only one to have lost my virginity.

It's not odd at all. Everyone feels ready at different times in different situations.

But agreed with above, don't expect your first time to be all swings and roundabouts. Mine was massively disappointing.



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Old 20-02-2011, 05:57 AM   #10
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Just turned 19, and still a virgin. You're in good company here :).



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Old 20-02-2011, 06:40 AM   #11
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I'm 23 and never even been kissed properly. So i am still a vergin.
My friend was in her late twentys maybe early therties when she lost her verginaty on her weding night.
19 isn't to old to be a vergin, give it time and you will find someone who it feels right with. It isn't somthing to rush into.




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Old 20-02-2011, 04:34 PM   #12
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I'm 21, I'm a virgin and I don't think there's anything wrong with it.

I mean, I do admit that sometimes I let it get to me, like, when I'm having negative/self loathing thoughts I always trough being a virgin in there, but in general, I don't think it's wrong at all, it's just me finding reasons to justify hating myself.

It is something very personal, you have to be ready for it, and it will happen when it does.







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Old 21-02-2011, 01:08 AM   #13
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I lost my virginity when i was 19. And everyday of my life, i wish i would have waited longer..

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Old 21-02-2011, 01:11 AM   #14
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At 19 I was pregnant with my daughter. She is now 19. And a virgin.



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Old 21-02-2011, 01:46 AM   #15
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My husband didn't lose his virginity till he was 25! (with me) I lost mine at 17 and had my first child at 19. You're not really missing out on a huge lot lol. It is much nicer shared with somebody special :)



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Old 22-02-2011, 01:36 PM   #16
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I was 18, and still only been with one person.

Its hard when there are TV programmes like "the joy of teen sex" and "skins" and stuff that make you feel like everyone is at it. But really its fine. My friend is 22 and still a virgin (i think?!).



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Old 22-02-2011, 04:01 PM   #17
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There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at 19 - in fact, I kinda respect those who lose it older because they didn't rush into it.

Having said that I lost it at 15 (I'm 17 now), and I don't regret it because I was in a relationship at the time.

But yes, it really isn't worth rushing into, take your time (:

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Old 22-02-2011, 04:50 PM   #18
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I am very frustrated that I am still a virgin (I am 17).It's another reason to hate myself.I think that no one likes me if they don't want to sleep with me.My friends assured me it's not true,but I can't help thinking like that.
I don't have much to add,since my feelings about virginity are a bit ****ed up.




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Old 22-02-2011, 08:09 PM   #19
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This is very normal and healthy. Wait until you are in a committed relationship like marriage. Sex is not something trivial.

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Old 22-02-2011, 11:18 PM   #20
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I was 14 or 15.

Q: Does this make me a 'cool dude'?
A: No

Q: Do I regret it?
A: No

Q: Would you?



To say I'm completely devoid of morals, would be harsh. Although I would have to admit I find it difficult to give a ****.

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