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Old 05-12-2012, 02:59 AM   #821
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Who'd you fight? Fighting is good for the soul.

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Old 06-12-2012, 04:07 AM   #822
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So I'm noticing more how much society where's their vagina on their sleeve, even guys. Hurt feelings this and that. What happened to just sucking it up and pressing on. All these guys crying and **** just gives me a headache. Oh my god. I could go on.

Also girls telling guys how to act? Bitch please.

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Old 06-12-2012, 06:14 AM   #823
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So I'm noticing more how much society where's their vagina on their sleeve, even guys. Hurt feelings this and that. What happened to just sucking it up and pressing on. All these guys crying and **** just gives me a headache. Oh my god. I could go on.

Also girls telling guys how to act? Bitch please.


The human psyche has a masculine and feminine component. While equal they are not alike. Women are nurturers and have all the extra hormones, plumbing and emotions to carry out that important role. Men are less emotional thinkers on the whole and they have a more authoritarian role in the raising of children that is meant to transcend the more emotional parental bonds. If a child does not know how to transcend its emotional needs and bonds it will not grow strong roots in itself. In a sense, mothers give birth to an infants body and ego - men are supposed to help them find their inner, transcendent ground of being. Most people have a innate desire for someone stronger and wiser to show them how to find themselves - that's what fathers are for.

Unfortunately men are also prone to a weakness for women that can cause them to turn into one of the kids. They want mommy wife/girlfriend etc to make them feel nice nice too like the kids. Women on the other hand have a weakness for men's weakness and get a kid of security from nurturing their "little boy" husbands etc. Its like women are the bartenders of life and men are the drunks.

In earlier times when life was more rugged men had to be more assertive in their roles. They had to protect families, fight wars, tame the elements etc. There was no government services and benefits office. Women were totlaly consumed with children, making clothes etc.

In the modern age life is easy peasy and people get lax. People work mousey desk jobs, clothes and food are easy, national defense has been easy etc. People are into music, food, weed, alcohol, porn, games, football etc. Individual and national character have slackened a lot. People want the gov to take care of them. Men want women to baby them more than ever. Women do this more than ever even though they really have contempt for such men.

Aristotle wrote "Masculine republics give way to feminine democracies and these give way to tyranny". That's the arc of degenerating character. When once vigorous and noble men become consumed with their comfort and society takes on a more nurturing role the feminine psyche and spirit starts to take up the slack men leave. That's when you get the socialist "nanny state" like we have had the past 50 years where everyone cries out for help.This is also why so many people have so many problems. People have lost their roots and the emptiness is driving addictions, mental issues, suicide etc. People stopped being loved as kids because parents gradually have lost their insights and character. Most everyone is lost and has a silent scream inside that nothing outside seems to fill.

Now societies and individuals are so weak that people are losing their freedoms and the governments who try to give everything to people is wanting to take everything from people. Countries are dividing up within themselves in a way that's just tribal. One group is against another group and that one another group. A house divided can't stand. That's a reason why the world is on the verge of another world war. The difference this time is that countries are not united. They are going to be fighting among themselves at the same time.

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Old 06-12-2012, 07:20 AM   #824
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Hm. Interesting. Good ****.


How would that really go with like ivan the terrible? Them people killed his family. Left him alive to torment him whatnot. Then he got older and came back on their asses. History is ****ing badass.

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Old 07-12-2012, 01:35 PM   #825
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If I wasn't so god damn pissed off all the time I don't think you'd be able to tell a lot of difference between post from me and Isoverity.

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As far as who I fought, a guard from where I work. Asked the piece of ****ing **** to get this offender out of my area since I couldn't leave my post, his response: "**** You." I was surprised he actually showed up to the parking lot after that ****.


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Old 09-12-2012, 07:57 AM   #826
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That's awesome. Hahahahaha.

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Old 12-12-2012, 02:44 AM   #827
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I've had this strange sense of calm and acceptance come over me. I almost feel like all this time what has made me angry was how I resisted how things are.

I spoke with the girl who cheated on me over Thanksgiving. She managed to get a few words in edge wise. She said she wasn't like me, I asked what the **** she meant by that, She said "Strong". She went on to explain the times were changing, that people aren't how they were in her fathers age. That people know are weak and they hurt people for selfish reasons all the time, but me, she says, I've not been changed by the changing times. While I'm angry almost constantly, I'm not totally controlled by it, I have morals, and values, something that she, she admitted, sorely lacks.

It's sad that she was so weak, even worse that she knows it, and the worst that she was able to put into words why I am angry at life for me, it's almost as if she knows me better than I did myself.

In a way that's what's calming me, hearing the Why put into words. I don't know what to do with this know though, kinda feeling lost.



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Old 12-12-2012, 05:06 AM   #828
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I don't know how much you like her.. but she sounds like a dumb bitch. She's making it okay how she worded it for her poor actions. Her low(obviously) self worth. People always have hurt people out of selfishness. So no matter the age that hasn't changed. What has changed is people expecting things out of nothing. When I went to college for metals and welding. . You can tell who was strong who wasn't. The 'strong' sat through the heat and burns, the weak asked the strong to do their work as their own. Which only hrt the weak. Idk your age or the dumb females age. I'm 26. I stick to my word, my face(my word) is all igot. I meet 17 18 yearolds who are strong. I only made 3 friends at college cause well they weren't bitches. People these days expect everything for doing nothing. I hate those people. And its probably why half this forum hates me. You don't need that in your life. Nobody does, I guess that's why misery loves company. People these days will betray anyone for anything if it gets them ahead. On this forum I probably don't come off as nice, but I'm probably nicer in real life than the nicest person on here texting a response to a thread. Its not the ages, its all this other bs social media , money grubbing bs. My best friend is 19 and he's probably stronger mentally than myself, he just sometimes thinks like a girl.

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"It's sad that she was so weak, even worse that she knows it, and the worst that she was able to put into words why I am angry at life for me, it's almost as if she knows me better than I did myself. "

Women have a different take on reality - in some ways they are closer to it. Men and women are like the immovable object meeting the irresistible force. Women as a rule can't help having a little seductive aspect - and they can see who is prone to it. Often women test guys. If she can make him fall for the spell she gets a sense of power from that but there is also a disappointment. Deep down a lot of people want to be rescued from themselves. Women - the good ones - actually want to be cared about for who they are and not the charms. They cant help but test a guy. This girl may be mad at men and she can get high on judging the ones she can trip up - and then resent herself for it at the same time. If you refuse to play the games in a firm but in a patient manner there is some relief in that and the girl will see herself in a way that brings some genuine remorse and clarity. See if you give in to women they seem to like it - then they nuke you for being a putz once your locked in. If you dont become a putz it pees them off but they they will start to respect and like you more in the long run. Then relationships get better and better instead of worse and worse like most peoples. You also have to watch the hanky panky because if a girl thinks you're just using her she will judge you secretly or otherwise. Its a kind of "well I pulled that one down". Its like Superman losing his cape to Lois Lane. I know it sounds starchy but if guys want a decent gal someday they have to have some qualities that will get through her BS and find the real person. Its like waking up Sleeping Beauty. The rotten girls will flee for the same reason the good ones hang. Your friend doesn't sound too too bad. She's got something good about her I think. hard to tell just from a few lines

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I don't know how much you like her.. but she sounds like a dumb bitch. She's making it okay how she worded it for her poor actions. Her low(obviously) self worth. People always have hurt people out of selfishness. So no matter the age that hasn't changed. What has changed is people expecting things out of nothing. When I went to college for metals and welding. . You can tell who was strong who wasn't. The 'strong' sat through the heat and burns, the weak asked the strong to do their work as their own. Which only hrt the weak. Idk your age or the dumb females age. I'm 26. I stick to my word, my face(my word) is all igot. I meet 17 18 yearolds who are strong. I only made 3 friends at college cause well they weren't bitches. People these days expect everything for doing nothing. I hate those people. And its probably why half this forum hates me. You don't need that in your life. Nobody does, I guess that's why misery loves company. People these days will betray anyone for anything if it gets them ahead. On this forum I probably don't come off as nice, but I'm probably nicer in real life than the nicest person on here texting a response to a thread. Its not the ages, its all this other bs social media , money grubbing bs. My best friend is 19 and he's probably stronger mentally than myself, he just sometimes thinks like a girl.
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I don't really like her, when I found out what she did to me, I left. She contacted me today, I took the opportunity to vent, yell, scream at her, that kind of ****. Wasn't until I was done when I got to thinking about what she was trying to say. Doesn't justify it at all to me, and while I won't forget it or ever take her back, I forgive her. She's weak, she's nothing, She can't help but be as she is. I can't expect the weak to make themselves strong, if they do that's great, but it can't be expected of them.



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"It's sad that she was so weak, even worse that she knows it, and the worst that she was able to put into words why I am angry at life for me, it's almost as if she knows me better than I did myself. "

Women have a different take on reality - in some ways they are closer to it. Men and women are like the immovable object meeting the irresistible force. Women as a rule can't help having a little seductive aspect - and they can see who is prone to it. Often women test guys. If she can make him fall for the spell she gets a sense of power from that but there is also a disappointment. Deep down a lot of people want to be rescued from themselves. Women - the good ones - actually want to be cared about for who they are and not the charms. They cant help but test a guy. This girl may be mad at men and she can get high on judging the ones she can trip up - and then resent herself for it at the same time. If you refuse to play the games in a firm but in a patient manner there is some relief in that and the girl will see herself in a way that brings some genuine remorse and clarity. See if you give in to women they seem to like it - then they nuke you for being a putz once your locked in. If you dont become a putz it pees them off but they they will start to respect and like you more in the long run. Then relationships get better and better instead of worse and worse like most peoples. You also have to watch the hanky panky because if a girl thinks you're just using her she will judge you secretly or otherwise. Its a kind of "well I pulled that one down". Its like Superman losing his cape to Lois Lane. I know it sounds starchy but if guys want a decent gal someday they have to have some qualities that will get through her BS and find the real person. Its like waking up Sleeping Beauty. The rotten girls will flee for the same reason the good ones hang. Your friend doesn't sound too too bad. She's got something good about her I think. hard to tell just from a few lines
I don't think you're wrong here. I do think she has some good in her, but I feel she's too weak to resist, the moment something goes wrong, she crumbles and finds comfort the only way she knows how. With me, I don't take the ****, if she's throwing a fit on me, I just leave and go on with my life. I mean I don't feel the need to go into the full details of the relationship, but the bottom line is I was far far too pissed off all the time to tolerate bullshit.


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Old 12-12-2012, 08:43 AM   #831
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Just saying, if I were with someone who was that pissed off all the time, I don't think I'd be comfortable in that relationship.



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Old 12-12-2012, 11:33 AM   #832
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For goodness sake both of you, do you have any idea how much of a drama there was over the creation of this thread in the first place?

They had to fight for ages because it was deemed as sexist and that, and the both of you are turning it into exactly what was feared it would become.

There are ways of talking about your issues without being so derogatory. Youre not being 'manly' or 'strong' .. youre both being ****ing pigs.

When i was a moderator i was in charge of keeping this thread on track and if it were up to me, you would both be banned from it.





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Old 12-12-2012, 11:52 AM   #833
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in terms of the block function, yes its there and yes people should use it, but regardless of that, the rules of the forum apply everywhere.

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i understand.


What im saying is, it would be a shame for one of you/both of you to not be able to post here because of technicalities especially as you both seem to be getting something out of the chats youre having.

There should be some male mods.

I guess thats all i have to say really.

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I have closed this thread so I can remove all of the rule breaking posts without the thread escalating.

Be advised that if anymore sexist/derogatory occur this thread will be permenantly locked. There is also a ridiculous amount of flaming of the moderators on this thread,if you have a problem with the way situations are handled, you email us.

Its disgusting that a thread designed for good is being turned into something vile by a couple of members,stop ruining it for everyone else.




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