Significant others. Parents. Children. Friends. They all have assumed that, well, 'If I can just make them happy!' or 'Well, tough love with snap him/ her out of this crap'... But it doesn't always work that way. In fact, in almost never does.
So how can we make them understand? "It's not your fault! Why. Won't. You. Believe me???"
My boyfriend right now cannot seem to deal with my SI, and thinks that if he just keeps me happy all the time, he can miraculously 'cure' me of it. He gets defensive, even, and thinks that I must not be happy with him if I keep doing it. Like, it's his fault, somehow. That *he* is the one doing something wrong.
I mean, I'm not miserable or sad all the time, nor am I happy, sad, etc... But that doesn't necessarily effect my SI. I mean, we've all had that one person, perhaps more. So, again, what can one say to a loved one to make them understand that our SI is not affected by how much they can love us?