I'm positive because i'm actually going out with someone now, i'm not the best looking, i'm an idiot sometimes and i SH so if i can get someone i know all you awesome people can..Make sense?
I guess so...but like you said, you're going out with someone. I would think it would be easier to have hope of having a relationship if you already had one.
Besides I have problems beyond SH and not being attractive...
I'll believe it when I don't lose my chances with the person I like now just because my hair is different. (I have a history of the color of my hair determining how unattractive I am to certain people).
Because people (guys in particular) seem to be really superficial when it comes to girls.
I'm just saying since my hair was made fun of until I started dying it bright red, but on the flip side of that the only person that liked me at all (and we never really had a chance at a relationship) made really nasty comments about me just putting a little red in my hair.
Now that I wanted something different and my hair is two-tone red and black...who knows? Maybe I'll suddenly be really hot or suddenly be really ugly. Probably the latter, as I tend to look kinda goth/emo and I'm the only one in my department like that.
Except that everyone cares here it seems...also, apparently a girl can't tell a guy that she has feelings for him. Guys take that VERY badly. Why is that exactly? Does anyone know? I mean, they're not going to approach me, so what a I supposed to do? Just wait until I actually find a girl?-ha.
I'm also an exception to the rule. Unless it applies to "there's someone who will make fun of you and make you feel ugly out there for everybody".
Unless, of course you're a dumb blonde bimbo and enough guys will want to f*ck you, that nothing else really matter.
I could be blonde...but unfortunately I'm smart and not a whore (actually too much of the opposite, which is probably why no one likes me).
I just am - just come out of a nearly 3 year relationship, don't know how I'm even going to start finding someone like her.
That's strange, why would the colour of your hair matter?
So this proves that someone has liked you, and so chances are so will someone else if you give them the chance.
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Originally Posted by chesterlily88
Unless, of course you're a dumb blonde bimbo and enough guys will want to f*ck you, that nothing else really matter.
I could be blonde...but unfortunately I'm smart and not a whore (actually too much of the opposite, which is probably why no one likes me).
As a blonde I actually find that pretty offensive. Being blonde doesn't make you a dumb bimbo, nor does it make you a whore.
To be honest, if you are both going to say that you will never find someone then you never will. That sort of attitude doesn't really help your situation.
To be honest, if you are both going to say that you will never find someone then you never will. That sort of attitude doesn't really help your situation.
This!
As hard as it may seem, you have to stay positive!
I DID NOT SAY ALL BLONDES. Because you know what? I'm actually blonde too.
You know what...I'm done with this thread, at least for a long while. Can't even finish my thought because I'll be attacked. I guess it's just like real life, I'm not allowed to have feelings. But you know what? I'm fine with that.
I DID NOT SAY ALL BLONDES. Because you know what? I'm actually blonde too.
You know what...I'm done with this thread, at least for a long while. Can't even finish my thought because I'll be attacked. I guess it's just like real life, I'm not allowed to have feelings. But you know what? I'm fine with that.
You didn't qualify your post to say that it wasn't all blondes. To me it read that you were saying all blondes, and that is why I found it offensive. If you feel you are being attacked, then that's your prerogative. Maybe one day you'll come to see that being positive (or at least less negative) about things might be more beneficial.
Chesterlily, tbh, with that attitude about everything, I really can't say I'm surprised. You seem to insist that everyone hates you, and are generally very negative about everything. I don't think I remember you ever saying a single positive thing in this thread. -_-