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Old 17-09-2020, 05:44 PM   #1
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overspending and impulse control

How do people deal with this ? I gind it very difficult ive got impulse control issues because of my mental illness and i cant afford to go blowing obscene ammounts of money on things i dont need . Especially when i have more than likely got to buy myself winter clothes and new glasses and christmas n birthday presents for people and so what did i go and do spent £100 in one day in a single transaction on things i dont even need. How do people manage to avoid doing stuff like this ?! I have a bit of a hoarding problem anyway and have done for years finally thr flat starts getting sorted then i go and blow it my friend whos like a mum to me is gonna go mental wen i tell her i think as shes trying to help me eith my finances its not the first time i have messed up since shes been helping or trying to either . I dont know what to do

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Old 18-09-2020, 10:24 AM   #2
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Best advice is take a pay as you go card out shopping with you and write down what you need.



Have you ever confused a dream with life? Or stolen something when you have the cash? Have you ever been blue? Or thought your train moving while sitting still? Maybe I was just crazy. Maybe it was the 60's. Or maybe I was just a girl... interrupted.
I know what it's like to want to die. How it hurts to smile. How you try to fit in but you can't. How you hurt yourself on the outside to try to kill the thing on the inside. I tried groups, didn't work out just made my depression a lot worse.

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