Originally Posted by pretty_in_pain
He tells me that he cares but he just doesnt know what to do, but I'm doing all this for him so I wish he'd be a bit more enthusiastic!
Everyone is different and sorry if this sounds out of turn but I really think this is something you ought to be doing for YOU.
You don't owe him your recovery you owe it yourself. You didn't choose your state of mind to spite him so its not something to 'fix' and change for him. Its fine to use him or your relationship as inspiration but not for "all" your motivation.
Yes it will benefit him and your relationship but first and foremost you have to be wanting this for yourself.
I'm forever doing things for other people but I draw the line at dealing with whatever health issues I might have to benefit someone else. I did once, but never again... The one time I went to the doc was for the benefit of my at the time boyfriend.. however I went to one therapy session and never went back, it all felt wrong, because I was doing it for the wrong person and therefore wrong reasons.
Hope you find inspiration within yourself...