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Old 01-06-2010, 02:11 PM   #1
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Major panic :(
My nan obviously saw my ryl post when I posted my charity jump. I pasted the link and wrote something like, "if you sponser, please don't mention RYL as my mum and dad don't know i still use it " my nan obviously told my mum, and my mum was like "nan asked me what RYL was.. and my mum knew it was recover your life.. but my nan must have thought it was a pro anorexia site or something. My mum mentioned it last night briefly....... now im in a masive stress. Do you think my mum would have gone through my ryl posts I created? This can't happen. Do u think that would have even crossed her mind or am i just being paranoid. She mentioned nothing about posts....

I feel physically sick because of all this
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Old 01-06-2010, 02:13 PM   #2
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I think out of curiosity your mum may well have gone through your posts, but how is anyone here to really know. To be honest I'd be deleting the lot now if I were you.




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Old 01-06-2010, 02:15 PM   #3
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She might not have gone through your posts. If she's anything like my mum she'd be a bit confused about how to navigate RYL. Best thing is just to talk to her about what RYL is and explain that it's a way for you to get support.

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Old 01-06-2010, 02:16 PM   #4
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my mum knows im doing well now.. i've deleted all my posts I started, she hasn't mentioned anything about posts, but im just in a major worry :(



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Old 01-06-2010, 02:17 PM   #5
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I know, it's horrible when you find out someone knows about here that you would rather didn't have access to what you talk about on RYL. What's done is done though.




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Old 01-06-2010, 02:17 PM   #6
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Old 01-06-2010, 02:19 PM   #7
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it's all changed, i just dont know if it went through her mind to find posts



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Old 01-06-2010, 02:19 PM   #8
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Ask her?




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Old 01-06-2010, 02:23 PM   #9
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then she might know im hiding something :/
argh dont know what to do.. she hasnt said anything



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Old 01-06-2010, 03:48 PM   #10
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This probably shouldn't be in GC, maybe General Support would be better.

There probably isn't anything you can do now, except delete things, but that's just damage control. If you use a shared computer and are worried you should always delete your history, never remain logged in, and not have anything that could identify you to someone else.

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Old 01-06-2010, 03:52 PM   #11
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If she hasn't mentioned anything then maybe she hasn't read any.
and perhaps if she has she may go easier on you as she will have some understanding of thoughts and feeling that you know you can't get out any other way.

When my father first found my blog I was mortified about what he would read. but for a time he eased up on pressuring me to do things because he read what sort of things I felt and thought. He's never talked about it but I knew he had gained, briefly, some understanding.



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Old 01-06-2010, 04:55 PM   #12
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: do you think she would tell me if she saw?
d you think im being paranoid for no reason?



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Old 01-06-2010, 07:05 PM   #13
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We don't know what sort of person she is, do we. I don't think you're being paranoid for no reason but I also don't think it's doing you a lot of good.




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