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Old 15-01-2020, 10:51 AM   #401
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I've had to appeal quite a lot of DWP decisions and they have usually eventually turned out in my favour. I'm not sure about this change though, as my benefits stayed the same. Can you ask your CPN for advice?





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Old 15-01-2020, 08:44 PM   #402
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Great news, my parents went through the letter with me and my income is still sufficient.

Thanks for the reassurance.



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Old 16-01-2020, 11:41 AM   #403
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That's really good. But if you think you're entitled to more then do put in a reconsideration/appeal. Benefits stuff is so stressful.





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Old 27-01-2020, 11:28 PM   #404
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Hi, I'm back. Struggling with being honest with parents when if I lie, say I am safe, i could end it this week. I suppose a part of me is scared of death and what it might do to my family, otherwise this would be an easy decision



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Old 28-01-2020, 12:38 AM   #405
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Theory A. I need to die. Everyone will feel better, including me. 90%


Theory B I might not succeed and even to try would cause suffering 10%


Evidence A: can't get the idea out my head, clues on the TV.


Evidence B: my family love me, I would hurt them. I am not in pain, I am in control, I don't feel unwell, I can't see cameras, there are no signs of thought reading**


But Theory A makes more sense to me. What do I tell my CPN?



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Old 28-01-2020, 09:00 AM   #406
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You need to be honest with your CPN no matter what you are thinking. It's really important that someone who is not inside the emotional place you are right now can look at things from an objective point of view. You need some support, you don't need to die. Please be honest about both theories and your beliefs regarding each of them. You can do this.





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Old 29-01-2020, 12:27 PM   #407
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I just saw my CPN and he said i need to not lose weight. This is reassuring because I worry I eat far too much. I would still love to be skinny though so I am tempted to restrict again.



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Old 29-01-2020, 07:51 PM   #408
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Please help, I'm really triggered.



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Old 04-02-2020, 12:15 PM   #409
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The world would be a better place without me.



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Old 04-02-2020, 02:42 PM   #410
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What makes you think that?

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Old 04-02-2020, 03:20 PM   #411
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I'm so needy, I take away goodness from everyone else.



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Old 04-02-2020, 05:15 PM   #412
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I think you're lovely and add goodness to everyone's lives.

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Old 05-02-2020, 04:10 PM   #413
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A big thank you for your support. I won't be here for a week, on the suggestion of my CPN.



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Old 05-02-2020, 05:27 PM   #414
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