Does this count?
I'm going to include an attachment here, since what I have to say is very long. It was originally something I had written just so I could get it off my chest. It is written as if I was addressing my sister about what we went through, and talks about my douchiness towards her as a kid.
If you don't want to read the link, the gist is when I was younger my father used to back hand us for doing things he didn't like. We were well behaved kids, so we mostly got hit for being sassy or talking back. We also get pushed around sometimes. I don't remember any serious injuries, or even bruises although I know my sister got bruises. The worst I received was a split lip from being smacked on the mouth. These happened a lot, though never in front of my mother or other siblings in some cases. He can be very cruel, but he can sometimes be a very caring father.
I need to know if this counts as abuse. Just for validation purposes I guess. Sometimes I feel so selfish obsessing over my childhood when others had it much worse
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