Originally Posted by
Angel_of_Urs
I think people are forgetting that alot of users on here are younger and so are far more inclined to panic. . . rather than shutting down the threads or becoming irritated by them surely its better to point out that actually it's a good thing they have come here for support in the first place (which it is) better than suffering in silence.
I agree up to a point, but no matter what your age is, you still need to learn to take responsibility for your actions and sometimes that means getting medical help. It's (in my opinion) that most important and sometimes the most difficult part of recovery. We are all too quick sometimes to say, for example, "you make me feel blah" whereas we should be saying "I feel like blah because". We are always in control (bar those with psychosis etc). And taking that control will help us all to recover.
I do think that there is only so much we can do here as a website, and I'm not convinced that just supporting the person is always enough. It's not quite "being cruel to be kind" but it's something along those lines. We all need a bit of straight talking now and again. The problem is, when you know you are wrong, it isn't always well recieved.
I like the idea of moving the threads where peopl aren't prepared to go to hospital to other forums, as I just don't think they are first aid problems anymore, especially if full advise has been given and ignored (for whatever reason). Then, if people want to support, they can, but it leaves the first aid forum more free for it's sole purpose.
I understand that sometimes it's difficult to go to hospital etc, but hiding behind excuses like "not wanting your Mum to find out" isn't going to help the person who needs to get treatment. The worst thing about being afraid, is the fear itself and normally, the actual act will be a lot less scary than you feared it might be.
Didn't set out to offend anyone; this is just my two pences worth.