Support with bullying *replies could be triggering*
Hi guys, having read the thread in forum and community questions about splitting the forum, i have decided to start a thread to support people who have been bullied or know someone who is being bullied.
Please note: if you wish to post for help about being sexually abused, please post in another thread or start a new thread
this is because individuals can feel intimidated by posts about sexual abuse.
So, go for it guys, post away. I will keep checking on this thread when i am on to reply to people.
I am only a PM away if you need to talk and feel unable or unwilling to post on this thread or in this forum
Love to you all!!!!
"Has anyone seen my contact lens? It may be stuckto a tree or a rock or something. Oh boy, I am so grounded" Family Guy
if everyone cared and nobody cried, if everyone loved and nobody lied, if everyone shared and swallowed their pride, we'd see the day that nobody died
i found that if ignoreing them didnt work, if you are really out-of-your-way nice to them...they stop (someitmes) which makes no sense. maybe they do actually have concionses (sp)
im dreading goign back to school.
"I would be almighty in my own world of art, even if I had to paint my pictures with my wet tongue on the dusty floor of my cell." -Picasso
"No, painting is not done to decorate apartments. It is an instrument of war." - Picasso
'I have scars becuase I have a past; but they, like my past, do not define my future'
hehe I talk to myself in the mirror
I am so not weird..its part of this cbt thing
yus although if your me they didnt get bored
they didnt stop
i tried everything well I did have what 7 years so I had alot of time to try these things
and they never stopped not even when questioned by police
after I lay in hospital scared for my life at the tender age of 7
>.<
I shall shut up now.
but yes liz if you want to talk I'm always here =]
*cuddles tight*
hope it wasnt too bad
You're entirely bonkers. But I'll tell you a secret. All the best people are.
Hey Liz. I know how hard it is to go into school when you are being bullied babe (trust me, i've been there). Can you talk to the teachers to make sure you are sent work when you are not in so that you don't fall behind?
Yeah, they don't always get bored if they don't get a reaction, but sometimes....
Kat, angel, you are so special, i really think that. You are a wonderful person. You can be free of all the self-doubt those people left you with.
"Has anyone seen my contact lens? It may be stuckto a tree or a rock or something. Oh boy, I am so grounded" Family Guy
if everyone cared and nobody cried, if everyone loved and nobody lied, if everyone shared and swallowed their pride, we'd see the day that nobody died
i jsu tcopy up from everyone else. i wne tin the res tof the week. i jsut dont like goign in when i have a certain lesson (i only get it once a week) cos the teacher makes me feel like ****....though i only sjtu realised thats why i hate her lessons.
"I would be almighty in my own world of art, even if I had to paint my pictures with my wet tongue on the dusty floor of my cell." -Picasso
"No, painting is not done to decorate apartments. It is an instrument of war." - Picasso
'I have scars becuase I have a past; but they, like my past, do not define my future'
I know how crap it is to be bullied I had ten years of it at school, and it still affects me now, but now I wish I hadn`t let it get to me as much as it did, although that`s easier said than done. I have learnt that bullies are generally the most insecure people in the world and it`s the only way to make them feel better about themselves, not that it`s an excuse. I just ignored them as much as possible and stayed out of their way, but part of me now wishes I`d stood up to them.
Yeah, i know what you mean. My therapist worries that i have too much empathy with the people who bullied me....meh...i prefer to feel sorry for them than to hate them.
Forgiving someone is not excusing what they did, or forgetting it, but setting yourself free from the task of hating them.
"Has anyone seen my contact lens? It may be stuckto a tree or a rock or something. Oh boy, I am so grounded" Family Guy
if everyone cared and nobody cried, if everyone loved and nobody lied, if everyone shared and swallowed their pride, we'd see the day that nobody died
people seem suprised when i say i forgave my bullied. well, 2 of them out f god knwos how many. but they both (seperatly, and independantly of teachers) wrote me letters apologiseing. so i forgave them. and i now get the filthiest looks ever of one of the teacher who 'delt' with it after the teahcer ound out, when she see us together. we have a bit in comman, well, me and one of them. she self harms and had bulimic tendancies, and basically was f*cked up, so took it out on me. it doesn texcuse her, btu whats the point in wasteign energy in bareing grudges? these two were the thrid worst. my dad > year 9 > them in year 10, but they are the only ones to apologise. though i do wish they woudltn go out fo there way to talk to me, its triggering.
i havent forgiven the ones who havent apologised. they showed no remorse fro scareing me mentally and physically. even if they did apologise now, three years later, i dont knwo if i could.
"I would be almighty in my own world of art, even if I had to paint my pictures with my wet tongue on the dusty floor of my cell." -Picasso
"No, painting is not done to decorate apartments. It is an instrument of war." - Picasso
'I have scars becuase I have a past; but they, like my past, do not define my future'
“The good things don’t always soften the bad, but vice-versa, the bad things don’t necessarily spoil the good things and make them unimportant.”
“Nobody important? Blimey, that’s amazing. Do you know, in nine hundred years of time and space I’ve never met anyone who wasn’t important before.”
“If it’s time to go, remember what you’re leaving. Remember the best. My friends have always been the best of me.”
i'm not too great atm
bit iffy due to things but hey
Bullies pushed me out of being in full time education, i'm now in part time and i quite like it that way but hey i still sometimes get chairs tables pushed into me... Called names sweets crisps and wrappers thrown at me and being ignored is the worst thing ( i don't have any friends in school) I used to have 4/5 until my SH came in and this girl giovanna nestled in and she pushed me out.
Today on bus one girl ut of those 4/5 had to force herself to talk to me!!!!