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Old 16-12-2014, 05:16 AM   #1
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If I died, would you be sad?

Hey. I just feel like I need to ask this because I feel really sad right now and that nobody cares. I just wish I could die...

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Old 16-12-2014, 05:44 AM   #2
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This is highly inappropriate to ask that question on a site like this.





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Old 16-12-2014, 09:04 AM   #3
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I think we've already covered this sort of thing in other threads you've started. Also as mentioned above, this isn't really appropriate....



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Old 16-12-2014, 03:22 PM   #4
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This is highly inappropriate to ask that question on a site like this.
This.

What do you want from this thread? I bet a plethora of "of course we'll be sad"?
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Old 16-12-2014, 03:45 PM   #5
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We probably wouldn't know. People come and go here all the time. We are strangers on the Internet after all. Better asking people you know in real life.

And, as above, kind of an inappropriate thing to ask.



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Old 16-12-2014, 06:40 PM   #6
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Hey. I just feel like I need to ask this because I feel really sad right now and that nobody cares. I just wish I could die...
Hey,

I am sorry you are feeling so sad right now and finding that you are experiencing thoughts of wanting to die, as well as feeling that nobody cares. It must be a very difficult place to be and I can appreciate it takes a lot of courage to come on to a site and ask if people would care or not.

It's difficult question to answer on RYL and I feel like it is likely to be very different in real life.
The truth is, in most cases and for most people, suicide has a massive effect on other people and people are very sad. Family members and friends, even professionals who wish they could have helped more.
On here, if we knew then I'm sure many people would be sad because it is always sad when somebody commits suicide and you are important. You may not feel it but you are and I'm sure you have a lot to give to this world.

Is there anyone you could talk to about how desperate you are feeling right now?

You can also contact the supporters for confidential support at support@recoveryourlife.com

Take care,

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Old 16-12-2014, 06:42 PM   #7
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It would also be appreciated if other members could not mention whether this is appropriate or not in the thread. If you feel it's inappropriate please PR it to the moderators where we can deal with it privately.

The OP is obviously in a bad place right now and it would be better to offer support rather than suggest it is inappropriate, or if you feel you cannot add support then just leave the thread.

Thank you very much.

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Old 16-12-2014, 10:51 PM   #8
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It would also be appreciated if other members could not mention whether this is appropriate or not in the thread. If you feel it's inappropriate please PR it to the moderators where we can deal with it privately.

The OP is obviously in a bad place right now and it would be better to offer support rather than suggest it is inappropriate, or if you feel you cannot add support then just leave the thread.

Thank you very much.
Thank you for being nice. I wish everyone was like you.

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Old 17-12-2014, 12:25 AM   #9
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People are always sad when people die, even if they aren't especially close, and especially if the circumstances are tragic.

Nobody can just disappear, fade away. It isn't like that. I think there's a line in a TV Show - "did you think you could just slip out of the world with nothing happening because of it?".



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Old 18-12-2014, 08:13 PM   #10
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In terms of would I personally be sad if you died, well I don't know you personally so no. If I got to know you whether in be in person or online then that would change.

In terms of humanity as a whole, I think it is always said when someone dies under sad or avoidable circumstances. Suicide is an avoidable circumstance.

None of that is for lack of caring though. We all generally care about one another, or we wouldn't be on this website.

What kind of support are you looking for from this thread?
Suicide isn't avoidable for me. On terms of support, I don't know.

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Old 19-12-2014, 02:43 AM   #11
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