I'm sorry you're having this issue with your friend.
If he wants to study together for tests and you don't want to do that, then you have the ability and the right to say to him "I would rather study alone; I find I retain more and learn more efficiently that way".
If you don't like this person and feel no fondness for him, as you say, then it either isn't going to work out, or you could try telling him you'd like to have a discussion about how you feel about whatever he did that caused you both to "cut each other off" and say that it's still bothering you.
Without an attempt at open communication, you will probably end up ruminating about your grudge and dislike for this person, so it's up to you to decide whether you'd like to give whatever friendship is left one more try with an honest conversation and see what happens.
It sounds like you don't want to be friends with him, so instead of forcing yourself to be around a person you don't like, without cutting ties with him all of a sudden, then a conversation probably needs to take place. Conversations about issues in a friendship are never pleasant, but getting them out of the way and having everyone know where they stand can really clear the air, regardless of the outcome.
I'm sorry your friends didn't invite you to something that held so much importance to you.
Unfortunately, you may not ever get an apology out of either your friend or the group of friends who didn't invite you to the movie.
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