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Old 14-06-2015, 12:00 AM   #1
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Positive recovery post - Seven years?

15 June 2008 was the last time I hurt myself to cope with feelings. Since then I resolved not to use self harm to manage my emotions or validate myself, which were the main reasons I self harmed.

I've been through a lot and wanted to start again but I haven't.

I have made attempts at my life so I don't know if this seven years counts or not.

But to me it does because I have not, despite everything I went through, fallen back into that addictive hole of self harm. It truly was an addiction and so being seven years clean of that, of that scars, of the extra pain is an achievement for me.

Remember "the journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step", and the journey of seven years began with just one day free. You can do it too.

I couldn't have done it without RYL though, I honestly couldn't do THANK YOU XXXXXX

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Old 14-06-2015, 02:12 PM   #2
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I decided I'm going to count it and celebrate it, acknowledge it, somehow. Don't know yet.

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Old 14-06-2015, 06:32 PM   #3
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Well done lovely!! That is so awesome, and you DEFINITELY deserve to celebrate it and be proud of yourself! <3



"I know you're sad, so I won't tell you to have a good day. Instead, I advise you to simply have a day.
Stay alive, feed yourself well, wear comfortable clothes, and don't give up on yourself just yet.
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Old 14-06-2015, 06:49 PM   #4
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This is amazing news Aimee, congratulations on such a huge achievement!

It sounds like your attempt on your life are very different in meaning and feeling to your self harm, so it's definitely legit to count and celebrate this seven years free. Will you be doing anything to celebrate/reward yourself?



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Old 14-06-2015, 11:41 PM   #5
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Thank you both so so much :)

I do feel pretty proud today. I had urges to start again this year and I didn't give in. I will try and find a way to mark the occasion:)

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Old 15-06-2015, 12:13 AM   #6
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You really are amazing, fantastic achievement =). I hope you find the perfect way to celebrate!

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Old 15-06-2015, 04:07 AM   #7
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seven years is freaking AMAZING well done Aimee!



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Old 15-06-2015, 05:49 AM   #8
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Thank you all SO much!!!

It really means a lot to me :)

I ended up buying some Sunflowers, which are sitting in a vase on the table, and a couple of fancy chocolates. Just to mark the day :)

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Old 15-06-2015, 10:59 AM   #9
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That sounds lovely Aimee, you absolutely deserve to treat yourself!

Sunflowers are really wonderful! (Did you know that some of the things they symbolise include happiness, healing, flexibility and vitality - how appropriate!)



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Old 15-06-2015, 11:38 AM   #10
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I did not! How appropriate :)

Thanks Hannah x

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Old 15-06-2015, 03:16 PM   #11
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So amazing!
Let us know what you decide to do to celebrate when you reach 8 years!?
You're inspirational.




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Old 15-06-2015, 07:39 PM   #12
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well done!



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Old 15-06-2015, 09:19 PM   #13
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Aimee you're a super star! You should be so proud. I am inspired! xxx



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Old 15-06-2015, 10:41 PM   #14
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Many many congrats Aimee x



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Old 15-06-2015, 11:33 PM   #15
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You STAR my lovely. I am so proud of you and so honoured to count you as a friend/constellation buddy ;-p



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Old 17-06-2015, 03:55 PM   #16
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This is so amazing! Well done on such an amazing achievement

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Old 23-06-2015, 01:44 AM   #17
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It definetely counts! That's amazing and gives me so much hope and happy feelings!!

I'm glad you did something nice for yourself, well deserved. The sunflowers sound beautiful, and you are even more beautiful!!

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Old 05-08-2015, 11:28 AM   #18
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sorry to bump this but well done Aimee!

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