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Old 22-10-2020, 05:37 PM   #1
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time machine?

is it possble to build a time machine so I can go back in time to the end of my high school year and make sure that im there for my friend her whole entire rest of her life so when she dies I’ll be able to help her and protect her and be there for her?

does anyone know what i can do to build one and or can anyone help me build one PLEASE this is important!!



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Old 22-10-2020, 05:40 PM   #2
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Short answer, no, you can't build a time machine



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Old 22-10-2020, 05:59 PM   #3
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i really need another answer!!! does anyone know people who COULD be helpful in making a time machice???



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Old 22-10-2020, 06:09 PM   #4
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It is physically impossible



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Old 22-10-2020, 07:33 PM   #5
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A. No. It isn't scientifically possible.

B. What you're wanting to do even if it was possible sounds extremely unhealthy and inappropriate. If you were wanting to do that to someone who was alive you'd likely be looking at stalking charges. That's not appropriate.

I'm sorry your friend passed away, but sometimes bad things just happen. All we can do is figure out how to cope with it the best we can and move forward. It sucks. I hope you can talk to staff in your group home so they can help you grieve appropriately.



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Old 22-10-2020, 07:55 PM   #6
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No, there is no way you can build a time machine and even if you could, you can't guarantee what you're hoping to achieve would happen because life is unpredictable and can't be controlled as much as we would love to.

I think you really need to put this time machine idea out of your mind and focus on working through your emotions and grief of losing your friend. It sounds like it's brought up a lot of painful feelings and I'm very sorry for your loss
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No, there is no way you can build a time machine and even if you could, you can't guarantee what you're hoping to achieve would happen because life is unpredictable and can't be controlled as much as we would love to.

I think you really need to put this time machine idea out of your mind and focus on working through your emotions and grief of losing your friend. It sounds like it's brought up a lot of painful feelings and I'm very sorry for your loss
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i really dont think i can go on living without trying my hardest to save her........ its really really hard..i dont know what to do....



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Old 22-10-2020, 09:43 PM   #8
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Being serious for a second, how can you even save someone from heart failure? Her heart stopped. It happens to everyone.

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Old 22-10-2020, 09:49 PM   #9
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i dont know!! all i know is i wasnt there for her!!!



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Nobody can be there for someone 24/7, though. Like Camden said, if you tried to be you’d be looking at stalking charges and she wouldn’t want to be your friend anyway.

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I'm sorry you're feeling so strongly that you've let your friend down. I'm sure this wasn't the case. We can't predict these things unfortunately and you wouldn't have been able to do anything to prevent heart failure.

Is there anyone in real life you can talk these feelings through with?

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its all my fault that she died i couldnt protect her!!!

no nobody i can think of....



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What about your therapist? She’d be a good person to tell, particularly about wanting to build a time machine.

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Nobody can be there for someone 24/7, though. Like Camden said, if you tried to be you’d be looking at stalking charges and she wouldn’t want to be your friend anyway.
oh... but what could have i done?......



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oh... but what could have i done?......
The whole point is that there isn't anything you could have done.

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What about your therapist? She’d be a good person to tell, particularly about wanting to build a time machine.
i dont talk to her for a few more weeks so its going to be some time before i can talk to her and also i dont trust her.....



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The whole point is that there isn't anything you could have done.
it doesnt feel that way at all.......



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it doesnt feel that way at all.......
I know. I know it feels that way because our brains struggle to comprehend being powerless. This is one of those situations where you are powerless. It must be so painful and that's what you need to work through with people you trust.

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i dont have that in real life.....



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Okay, well we can help and it might be worth looking into charities that help with bereavement.

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