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Old 03-02-2019, 04:07 PM   #221
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That is quite difficult if there's not a set thing that helps really, I do understand that things help differently depending on how you are in that moment. If you do know what you need from someone in a crisis point would you be comfortable telling them what it is?

Those are good goals. What would help you to start doing those things?

I hope your new CPN is a good match for you. You can only wait and see.





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Old 03-02-2019, 07:44 PM   #222
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I'm not sure I would tbh. I just need someone to care and be there for me and listen.

Limited hours is the only thing stopping me but I'm hoping in the meantime that I can at least try and fit the volunteering in or at least go to look round the place.

Thank you. I hope so too. It's really worrying me.

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Old 04-02-2019, 03:30 PM   #223
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What things make you feel like people do care and are listening to you?

That's a good idea to try and start to take small steps with the volunteering. What is it you're interested in doing?





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Old 04-02-2019, 05:01 PM   #224
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I'm not sure I just kinda get a feeling about someone. I either click with people or I don't.

I'm looking into working at a therapy farm that has animals.

Home treatment came today and just said apparently they aren't seeing me again til Friday which is good because I'm getting fed up with them coming round now but would have been nice to discuss with me first about reducing my visits.

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Old 04-02-2019, 06:46 PM   #225
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It can be quite annoying when people don't discuss treatment plans with you and get your opinion. Do you think you'll manage ok without HTT till Friday? The therapy farm sounds really cool.





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Old 04-02-2019, 07:00 PM   #226
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I think I'll manage it's just I wish they had involved me more rather than just told me they wouldn't be seeing me again til Friday. It sounds like they will be transferring back my care maybe next week to the normal mental health team which I'm worrying about cause things haven't still been sorted for a new care coordinator and I'm also worried I'll relapse when I'm discharged from home treatment. The Home treatment lady is also trying to force me into physical health checks which I don't want like doing my weight and blood tests and I need to get out of it somehow.

Thanks, I'm looking forward to looking round. I just hope it's right for me.

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Old 08-02-2019, 01:36 PM   #227
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I'm so angry with everyone. I hate feeling like this.

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Old 09-02-2019, 07:50 AM   #228
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I'm sorry everything is so difficult right now. What exactly do you think angers you the most?


Do you think you could talk to some of the professionals about things in your care that are bothering you?

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Old 09-02-2019, 11:12 AM   #229
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Thanks for your reply. Just everyone assuming I'm fine. There's meant to be a joint meeting with mental health team and home treatment team next week so I could try and discuss my frustrations then.

I feel so bored and lonely.

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Old 11-02-2019, 06:43 PM   #230
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Please do try and mention your frustrations, this is your chance to be heard.

What interests do you have?





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My mum did call them up to explain I didn't want to see them and the reasons why. Have joint meeting on Thursday morning so I will try to be honest about my frustrations.

I'm so boring I just read and watch tv and sometimes films (all depending on concentration)

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Old 12-02-2019, 02:58 PM   #232
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Good luck. Can you think of anything that would help you be honest, or things that might prevent you from saying what you feel?

Those aren't really boring hobbies, they're common so lots of people could relate. Would you think about joining a reading group or a cinema group or something? The website Meetup might have some groups near you if you felt up to it.





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Old 12-02-2019, 03:11 PM   #233
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Thank you! I'm not sure to be honest. I'll probably let my mum do most of the talking.

They're all really good ideas I just don't have the confidence atm. Which is really frustrating.

Although today, me and my support worker went to a therapy farm which I'm hopefully going to be joining one afternoon a week in a group of a few other girls my sort of age and who have similar issues. It sounded really positive. I'm just praying I get the funding for it.

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Old 12-02-2019, 07:36 PM   #234
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Have you spoken to your Mum about what points you'd like her to put across? It would be good if you could find a way to have your own voice heard.

The therapy farm sounds positive, how long till you know if you have funding? Maybe someone could come with you to groups etc if you wanted to try them.





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Old 13-02-2019, 01:08 PM   #235
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Yeah we've talked about it and are on the same page.

They say normally a few weeks. If I get the funding and more hours then my support workers can come with me which would be good. And it's good because they offer volunteering there too and we've talked about me volunteering there once I've had the therapy and once my confidence has increased.

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Old 13-02-2019, 07:01 PM   #236
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I hope you have a good meeting tomorrow and feel heard and supported.

I'll keep my brain fingers crossed about the therapy farm.





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Thank you! So anxious

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Old 14-02-2019, 06:11 PM   #238
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How did you get on? You don't need to say if you don't want to.





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Thanks for asking. Meeting seemed to go well. They are going to chase up the change of care coordinator.

Unfortunately I had an introduction to recovery principles group at the mental health team after and it didn't go well and had to walk out half way through. I got really triggered and upset.

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Old 15-02-2019, 02:59 PM   #240
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I'm glad you feel like the meeting went well. It's a shame about the group upsetting you, how did you cope? Will you have to go to the group again or was it a one off thing?





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