does it really matter wat out sexuallity is or isnt?
i hate how it is made such a big deal ....why cant we just be who we want to be?
because our world is not comforable with whats diffent then them...........
we are the fallen
we are the wounded
we are the shattered
we are the unheard
we are the brave
we are the strong we are Survivors. and..... we are the future
we fallen can still rise by the wings of hope that lifts us~
Im so sick of not knowing what i am. My mnate thinks im a lesbain because shes always like "hes soo cute and my ype whats ur type" im like well ermm....
I havent kissed a lad and im 15 i havent kissed a girl either
:@ soo confused
I used to think i was bisexual, i went through at least two years of debating with myself, but now i just couldnt face being with girl. Im not sure wether thats something to do with the reputaion and critism that follows it, but its something i dont think i could face.
But like youve all said, things change, and you can't put a lable on yourself. You just have to follow your instincts and go with what your comfortable doing.
Easier Said Than Done.
My friend recently admited to being bisexual, and having feelings for me. This completely threw me off balance. Its not that i have a problem with people being gay/lesbian (and everyother sexual orientation) but i just dont know how to process that information.
I think thats were society has gone wrong, people can accept it, they just handle it all wrong.
Even so, that does not rule out the fact that there are some total Pr*cks out there, determined to make other people miserable.
To be honest i honour and respect everyone that can be comfortable with their sexuality/gender. And even if your not comfortable, you should be. You shouldnt be treated any differently. Thats not humane otherwise.
I dont know if im a bit young to be thinking about this but ever since i was little i wanted to be a boy. My freind Antonia(19years old/16 wene i met her) had a impact on me as well seeing as she was my best freind and olso wanted to be a boy, she used to come around my house with her chest bandaged, and to see that i wasent alone in this gave me the curage to accept it. If i had to lable myself is say i was bi, yet i carnt see myself having sex with anyone els, i just dont like sex full stop. But i am attracted to people) i would never have sex with a boy or a girl right now, as a girl, but if i were a man i wouldent find it so horrible to have sex with anuther man. I dont know if iv been influensed on this aswell seeing as my brothers gay?
I dont know, i just had to get that off my chest. I wanna go on and on and on but i wont lol.
Im just wondring, is this normal? copz thinking about it makes me feel so alone.
aw *hugs* i used to be called a man sooo ofte nwhen i was younger because i used to sweat a lot... made me want a sex change.... but now iv gotten over it and i hope you figure out that theres nothing wrong with you and your made a girl for a reason
I want to disappear down the rabbit hole...
And have a tea party. Care to join?
i would say 14 is probably a prime time to be questioning your gender, sexuality, everything really, because your hormones are everywhere and so are your thoughts and feelings. Plus your breasts and everything are still growing and your body is changing/has changed.
if having breasts is relaly really bothering you, you can strap them down and stuff.
Try not to dwell on it or put pressure on yourself to make a decision about how you want to live your life, it'll all come eventually.