My boyfriend lives with his sister
Hello everyone,
I am hoping to get some advice on how to deal with a situation going on inside the home of my boyfriend. In July on last year he moved into a condo with his sister everything seemed great, she was a blast to live with. Now not so much. She's not only a slob who doesn't clean up after herself but she also believes it is okay to use things that are mine without asking.
The issue I am having is that I primarily do the grocery shopping for my boyfriend and I. I work hard to put food on the table and make sure he has what he needs. She thinks it's okay to just go in and eat my food. She does not ask, she does not replace, nor does she pay me for any of the groceries I buy. I am on my last straw with her.
To make this easier to understand she buys her own food. For instance I enjoy pizza when I work late nights and don't feel like cooking. She buys her own pizza but still eats mine. My boyfriend and I have talked to her about it and she still does it and I can't take it anymore.
Any advice on what I can do to stop this? I find her very disrespectful and I don't do well with disrespectful people.
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