What a difficult situation *hugs*. As the others have said, this may seem like the end of the world, but on a grand scale it actually isn't, it might even help you in the long run. If there's no way of stopping your friend then you have to try and think how you are going to approach the situation;are you going to deny everything and accuse your friend of lying, or are you going to face the fact that you maybe need more support and help.
If you are considering taking your own life with a gun, or something similar then I am guessing things aren't too great for you right now. For you to even consider such drastic action you must be feeling fairly desperate. So why not take a chance on something that might make things bearable, and give you a light to find your way out of this? Your parents will be worried yes, but I can promise you they'd rather know your struggling and be able to insure you get the help you need than lose you forever...
To lessen the blow, one suggestion I have is to get in there first. Sit your parents/counseller down and tell them the truth, tell them how bad things are. If you do so calmly, reasonably and honestly they will respect your rights to make your own decisions much more. If this is too much for you to cope with maybe write them a letter, hand it to them, and tell them to come get you when they feel calm enough to talk about it without freaking out.
Things have a habit of working out-this may well be the beginning of the rest of your life.
Last edited by HitchMyAppleWagon : 20-06-2007 at 11:11 AM.
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