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Old 10-09-2018, 07:30 PM   #21
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Deleted that post with the unnecessary embarrassing drama in it... Sorry to anyone who read it...


Kollantai, your post was far from unhelpful. Thank you so much.

Aubergine, I have seen counsellors and one did do CBT with me, I think? But I dunno, part of the problem is that I don't like talking about it, about me. So after a while I just clam up.

If it was like 50 questions with yes or no answers, then that might work. =/

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Old 10-09-2018, 08:21 PM   #22
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That's understandable nonperson (really wish you hadn't chose that name as you're not a "nonperson"), many people find it hard to talk about their emotions, which is why I suggest writing it down and handing it to whoever is seeing you. You deserve to have support as much as the next person. You deserve to be happy and to be able to look after yourself. You do a great job at offering advice and support for others, so I genuinely think you should spend a little time being "selfish" and looking after yourself.

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Old 11-09-2018, 06:28 AM   #23
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Thanks.

I think I wrote stuff down before, like a bullet point list but even that felt wrong and fake.

I’ve used this username for years - it sums everything up perfectly sometimes.

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Old 11-09-2018, 06:30 AM   #24
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Do you know what made the list feel wrong and fake? What you're experiencing is very real.



“Our defeats are softened and our victories are sweetened because we did it together.” - Toby Ziegler.

This isn't everything you are.


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Old 11-09-2018, 07:38 AM   #25
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Always just looks false, like I’ve made it up. And wrong because it sort of defines me somehow but without being detailed enough to come across what it is I’m really feeling.

Or something, I don’t know...

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Old 11-09-2018, 07:46 AM   #26
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I'm sure it wouldn't look false if you were able to show it to someone. You could always expand the bullet points if you needed to explain a bit more. I've written stuff down in the past and found it much easier than taking out loud.



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