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Old 17-04-2012, 04:42 PM   #781
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I think I may have had another completely unconscious scenario and it's freaking me out. I hate being out of complete control with absolutely no recollection >_<



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I don't have to let the damage consume me



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Old 17-04-2012, 10:22 PM   #782
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hey zed

im on esa, any questions just ask/pm

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Old 23-04-2012, 05:02 PM   #783
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I've decided to move back home for the summer. I have so much debt, and by moving home, I can save enough to pay it all back within a few months. I'm nervous about the drinking part though.



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Old 24-04-2012, 12:34 AM   #784
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hey everyone. havnt been in here for a while. I am currently IP doing alcohol detox. I am really scared about going home and relapsing again. any advice?

I hope you are all going ok

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Old 25-04-2012, 04:37 PM   #785
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I hope it's going okay Mandar

Sorry I don't have advice Lozza but I hope you mange to not relapse and I'm sending positive thoughts your way. I'll be in your position in a couple of weeks...



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Old 27-04-2012, 04:45 AM   #786
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Thanks Zed, I haven't actually moved yet though - I go back on Saturday. :)



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Old 27-04-2012, 09:38 PM   #787
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One more day and I'll be back at home. At least I have my job to keep me busy. As well as running my online business, and I've gotten really into photography lately - so busy I haven't really thought much of drinking, other than the fact that I'm going home and tend to relapse when I go there.
BUT with me being as busy as I am, hopefully I'll be able to stay sober. Four months next week!



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Old 28-04-2012, 02:17 PM   #788
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Busy is good. Always keep busy if it helps =) What type of business do you have online?

Wow that's great! So inspiring =)

I go into hospital for my detox on 10th May. Not sure what to feel/think at the moment. Trying to keep positive though (Y)



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Old 29-04-2012, 08:21 PM   #789
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Thanks so much.
I sell my handmade jewelry and photography on etsy. :)

Try to keep thinking positive. Stay strong. :)



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Old 30-04-2012, 05:44 PM   #790
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Zed where are you going for your detox?

Im going in next week.

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Old 30-04-2012, 06:19 PM   #791
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It's a unit in Manchester



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Old 02-05-2012, 04:15 PM   #792
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Is it normal to be Dog Tired one day after you stop drinking?
Because I did and I do.

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Old 02-05-2012, 05:01 PM   #793
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Sounds legit



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Old 02-05-2012, 11:21 PM   #794
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Doikers, I definitely was when I stopped. I think it's pretty normal.



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Old 04-05-2012, 03:37 PM   #795
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It just hit me that I have 5/6 days til detox. I really don't know what I'm feeling. Part of it is relief and part is panic. *hides under a rock*



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Old 07-05-2012, 01:40 AM   #796
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About a year ago I was spoken to the doctor that I was drinking too much. It had only been a matter of time until he mentioned it. I drink only after 9pm. It is a strict rule. But after that I drink until I fall asleep, and alcohol makes me stay awake to drink more

Sadly i'm making no headway.

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Old 07-05-2012, 07:58 PM   #797
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Hey zed how you doin?

I'm going into detox on Friday, dreading it

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Old 08-05-2012, 02:01 PM   #798
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Hey, I'm going on Thursday, still don't know what to think or feel >_<

Wishing you all the luck. We both need to try and make the most of it, yes?



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Old 08-05-2012, 02:08 PM   #799
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My flatmate has alcohol problems but won't admit it. He always comes out with "im not an alcoholic, alcoholics go to meetings. im just a drunk." and then laughs about it.

I think he has psychological issues anyway, and then drinking doesn't really help matters at all.

He gets so low when he's sober. He's in his 30's and has his first 'proper' job and he says now he wants to quit and just stay at home all day. He said he'd be much happier just being a bum.

He goes to bed around 6am at weekends and says the only way he can sleep is if he gets blind drunk. He got his wages on Thursday and owed me rent money but went out and went to a bar alone. His friend was planning an intervention at 10pm but he went there at 6, and got drunk first, so his friend said there was no reasoning with him. He went to another bar till midnight. And then a club until it shut at 3am, and then the casino until they stopped serving drink at 6am. I don't know how much he spent but he now can't pay me anything towards the bills until his next wage.

At the moment I'm not working. I have savings but it makes me angry to have to use my money when he earns 20,000 a year and just wastes it.

I'm his friend but not close enough to speak to him about it. He's making me really unhappy :(

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Old 09-05-2012, 10:44 PM   #800
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hey zed yes we definately need to be there for support for each other, i know you can do it, and yes i will to. Will be good to catch up with each others progress, so send a message as soon as you can, i want to know how you are doing x

lindsey if your flatmate is causing you problems with financies perhaps you need to discuss that with them?

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