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Old 13-04-2012, 11:36 PM   #1
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i keep losing people i love and care about :'(

I got a call about twenty mintues ago, Lou, my ex's mum and pretty much my second mother died.
I dont want to believe it
we only lost Liam (her son, my ex) last month >_<
I dont want to believe she died at all
I dont want to believe she's gone
I dont want to believe i#ll never see her again



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Old 13-04-2012, 11:52 PM   #2
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Hey, I really wish I had some sort of advice to give to you, but all I can say is that I do know how it feels when you lose someone you love. Is there anyone in real life that you can spend time with and get support during all of this? It might help just to be around people and to keep your mind busy for a little bit each day.






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Old 13-04-2012, 11:58 PM   #3
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ive got a friend talking to me about it, telling me to keep strong and try not to relapse myself, im gonna spend a few days with them i think



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Old 14-04-2012, 02:04 AM   #4
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Hey Sweetheart,

I am so sorry to hear about your losses. I can relate, and I wish there were words that could take your pain away.

I'm glad you have a friend who is supporting you at the moment and encouraging you to keep safe. It sounds like it would be a good idea to go and stay with them.

We are here for you.

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Old 15-04-2012, 02:17 PM   #5
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i'm so sorry. losing two people that you love so close together is very difficult. *hugs*

you can make it through though. grief is painful, and scary at times, but you've got to experience it before you can feel better. have you thought about getting any sort of greif counseling or support, or even posing on the grief forum on here?




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Old 16-04-2012, 11:37 PM   #6
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Ive been asked by my parents (who ive moved back in with) to go to counselling, im still a bit scheptical ( ive had trust issues in the past)



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Old 17-04-2012, 12:01 AM   #7
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i would give it a try, and try to keep an open mind about it. counseling can be really helpful, especially if you find a good counselor for you.

if you really don't want to go to counseling... what is your plan for feeling better? you need to have an approach to how you will get yourself through this.




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Old 17-04-2012, 11:08 PM   #8
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since Liam died i've just been drinking and doing other things to try and numb the feeling, ive been writing in a notebook and some of the stuff ive written is pretty messed up :/ , i try to avoid it if someone brings the subjects up (unless its my friend) i want to try and stop drinking and taking too many bad things and try and cope a bit better, surprisingly ive not self-harmed for two weeks, but i havent cried since i found out , i just want the weird feelings to stop >_<



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Old 18-04-2012, 02:25 AM   #9
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thats great that you haven't harmed for two weeks, especially if you are feeling weird *hugs*

not drinking or taking non-prescribed meds (assuming thats what you mean by bad things?) sounds like a great goal. you know that you'll need better coping skills. what kind of things might those be? do you need some help coming up with ideas?




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Old 18-04-2012, 09:16 PM   #10
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non-prescribed meds/ illegals. ive been doing alot morephotography than usual, and im gonna try visit some freinds tomorrow



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Old 18-04-2012, 11:45 PM   #11
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I am really sorry for your losses.

I hope seeing your friends tomorrow helps.
You said you had trust issues in the past - was that with the counsellor? It might help to go back, perhaps and see a different one. Some are better than others.




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Old 19-04-2012, 10:04 PM   #12
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ive been moved round the department :/ ( most of the counsellors there are male and im uncomfortable being around men i dont know) the one counsellor i got on with and opened up a bit too left :/



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