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Old 03-07-2018, 08:48 PM   #2
I always have a choice
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Sounds like a tricky situation! You have said that you don't want to talk to him and he has to accept that. You don't owe him anything and don't need to feel bad for moving on with your life and not contacting him.

Perhaps you could let the people around you know what's going on so that they can be on hand to keep reminding you that you're making the right choice and that it's OK to continue not speaking to him?

Do you know what it is about your contact with him that is making you want to go back to talking to him? I'm glad you are aware that that wouldn't work!

We may not see eye to eye, but we can respect each other's opinions and find the truth in them.
Perhaps in those honest conversations, instead of demonising each other,
we might see each other as imperfect humans, doing our best. ~ Jodi Picoult

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