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Old 06-05-2012, 10:28 AM   #4
CagedBird
 
Join Date: Oct 2009

That sounds really difficult. I think when someone dies we all try and make sense out of the chaos that is left behind and sometimes that can lead to blame and anger at those we feel didn't 'do enough'. I wonder why she cut you and your brother off and if it was part of their grief reaction to avoid the pain by not having to be reminded of your dad? I understand that you would not want to have a relationship with her after all this time, I'm sure you have a bunch of anger and questions that need to be resolved first.

Do you have any other family to talk to all this about? May be you can take is slow, and figure out what you want and need along the way? I understand how that may be a painful thing to do though.

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