I think there's so much pressure on university to be "some of the best years of your life!!!", sort of thing, that it's almost easy for it to be a let down and be unenjoyable in comparison.
Not that the comparison is the only thing/problem, but it definitely doesn't help. You have to remember that it's a heck of a lot more common than you'll ever know, for uni to be much harder (in numerous senses) than people like to make it seem.
Some sports teams are really full-on and take themselves seriously, others not so much. Maybe do a bit of 'research' into them, and find one that sounds a little bit more laidback. For example, my uni has less competitive sports teams, and more casual sports activities like aerobics classes.
I hope everything picks up! I'm sure there are many more people like you than you realise around you, and honestly not everyone's always having a fantastic time, no matter what they might say :)
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