Hey there,
I'm so sorry this is all going on. It sounds like you've been having a really rough time lately. I'm not sure where all the technical definitions apply for certain acts of sexual abuse, but I do know that the abuse you've experienced by your grandpa is causing you emotional pain, regardless of whether it's under any specific label. I strongly recommend continuing therapy.
Also, the guy you were fooling around with sounds like a jerk. Anyone you are involved with intimately should respect your boundaries and you. Don't feel like it's your fault he became angry or that he left and it's not poor judgment on your part. It was sexual harassment, period.
If you need to talk, feel free to message me... you are not alone. <3
Stay safe!
Allison
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