Wasn't it your abusers twisted lack of morality that allowed them to hurt you? Is it fair to blame children for being abused?
It's not that easy to just move on! The fact that you haven't just magically 'moved on' means that you are hurting and suffering, yet you want to punish yourself for the fact that you are hurting and suffering! More hurt because you're hurting? That doesn't seem fair :(
(btw, none of that is criticism in the slightest, just trying to challenge the negative self-talk that you've got going on!)
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