last weekend my mom said that my uncle is going to be here for thanksgiving and im not sure if i want to see him and probably my cousions are coming to my moms house too and i asked if we could have a separate day just our family because i dont want to hurt again like i did last time the whole family was there...... (i didnt tell her the reason why i didnt want them to come over... i just ask her if we could have a dinner seprate form theirs) she said no...