im really sorry that you are going through a tough time right now...
but not cutting in just under 1 and a half years is amazing. proud of you.
depending on how many there are you can try one of those arm cuffs. bangles for the top of your arm instead of your wrist.
try layring clothes so you can wear long sleeved tops underneath short sleeved tops. a bit of variation ..so it doesn't look too suspicious.
as for changing in front of him...i think you just have to try and avoid this or face your arm away from him because putting make up on fresh cuts is not a good idea.
if you go out and are leaving your arms bare you can cover them up with a pashmina or a large scarf and tie it at the front of you (with a few safety pins here and there).
wear a shrug until they heal.
hope it helps and good luck with it.
stay safe xx
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