Originally Posted by
LRgrad15
Well the reason is because most people don’t have this problem and also I have been told by many people over the years that this kind of behavior from anyone is actually not normal. Yes people go back and forth a bit but not to the point of acting extremely eager at one point to practically avoiding at another. Yeah in some causes it can be due to problems, totally get that. But that is not always the case. And like I said, I am not expecting someone to hang out with me all the time. I am not clingy. I just find the constant back and forth between the two extremes a bit confusing since during a phase where the person is super eager, I know that any day the person will ghost out for a long period of time very suddenly, without warning. Only to revert back to being super eager. Not really that normal in my opinion.