hey hun *hugs* promises do suck i have the same one to my boyfriend. Its killing me but in the same sense it makes us stronger because WE HAVE to control the urges, people want us to stop because THEY CARE about us. Do explain urges though it does help - because my bf knows when they are going to come (permanent atm tho) and he can talk me through it. Maybe find an activity you and your mum could do when your triggered to distract yourself? She loves you dearly and doesnt want to see you hurting anymore xx
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