might not be easy but anyway you can distance yourself from this guy's friend? like if you're alone and he is and he starts behaving like that leave and go to your room? i dunno sorry. not a long term solution i know but might help until the others are back and you can have extra support behind you to stamp this out.
you are perfectly entitled to be upset by this. you were obviously uncomfortable with what he was doing and talking about, yet he continued. just because he seems nice some of the time doesnt makle his behaviour less.
i know you said you casnt talk to your girlfriend about the past, well your welcome to talk on here i find writing stuff down easier than saying it anyway.
thinking of you,
jen x
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